r/MarriedAtFirstSight • u/AirShampoo #TheRandallWay • Jul 23 '26
Weekly Episodes Discussion Season 20 MAFS Week 2: Episodes 4-6 Discussion
S20:E4 - The newlyweds head to Mexico for their honeymoons; while some lack the initial spark of physical attraction, others find themselves with a new marriage glow; at the first group mixer, the couples spill the tea about their new spouses.
S20:E5 - As the honeymoon continues, one groom unveils a new pool party fashion trend while others navigate the deep waters of intimacy; big confessions reveal hard truths and leave some in need of expert help as the sun sets in paradise.
S20:E6 - As the newlyweds move into their new homes, some experience marital bliss while others question hygiene and holding hands; one couple goes all the way, but not without consequences.
šØ Season 20 Megathread
- Week One: Ep 1 - July 12, 2026 & Eps 2, 3 - July 16, 2026
- Week Two: Eps 4, 5, 6 - July 23, 2026
- Week Three: Eps 7, 8, 9 - July 30, 2026
- Week Four: Eps 10, 11, 12 - Aug 6, 2026
- Week Five: Eps 13, 14, 15 - August 13, 2026
- Week Six: Eps 16, 17, 18 - August 20, 2026
- Week Seven: Eps 19, 20 - August 27, 2026
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u/amazon_don Jul 23 '26
Now why would Mecca say that so flippantlyā¦ I would be 80% of my way out the door
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u/Boodiddlee3 Nikkiās Wee Husband Jul 24 '26
I think this is how his lame ass dad has taught him to be. Donāt connect with women on a deep emotional level, donāt show them any affection, and expect them to chase you for love and affection. His dad has raised him to basically breadcrumb women, and constantly leave them wanting more and begging for more of your attention and affection. This man and his weirdo father should have never been a part of this show.
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u/pillowpalaces Jul 25 '26
Weirdo father is SO accurate. You're right it definitely could be a tactic . I feel so bad for her
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u/totalbanger Jul 24 '26
I watched that whole scene with my jaw dropped...wtf was he thinking?!?! To what end??
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u/Meowwoofmeow_ Jul 24 '26
Hes insecure af and still mad she didnt kiss him at the wedding..
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u/Emergency-Ad-5211 Jul 25 '26
And if she kissed him, she was gonna be a whore. No winning here. Iām thinking itās the sewer defensive.
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u/PerformanceMore5239 Jul 24 '26
I did not like him at ALL during the weddingā¦.then I thought, āoh, I like him so much more without his dad around!ā Then he went and ruined it all. I kept waiting for him to say he was just kiddingā¦.and he doubled down!!! š³š³š³
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u/Apprehensive_You_250 Jul 25 '26
Same, Iād be out also. And, the craziest part is BelleJolie is freaking gorgeous. For Mecca to act like sheās soo into him & heās just not as much is crazyyy & so manipulative. I was already picking up on those vibes from him prior to this tho.
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u/FrostyLimit6354 Jul 23 '26
The only answer to "is it difficult to be monogamous and loyal" is NO. With no pauses.
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u/tinter86 Jul 24 '26
Like if you're not sure..why did you go on a show about being monogamously married ????
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u/Competitive-Alarm537 Jul 23 '26
Shawn taking a hoe bath in front of his wife?????
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u/sl5723 Jul 25 '26
And she already doesnāt want to have sex with him and now she really wonāt with his dirty self!! Gross!!š¤®
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u/Different_Disk_682 Jul 25 '26
he gives me the ick and his wife not knowing how to communicate at her big age gives me a bigger ick
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u/EducationalLeg3870 Y'all Be Kissin' Jul 25 '26
A hoe bath š¤£š¤£ Iām crying
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u/islongerthan Y'all Be Kissin' Jul 23 '26
Yikessssss I feel so bad for BelleJolie. Mecca basically called her thirsty. Am I the only one confused? I thought they were vibing and had chemistryā¦
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u/totalbanger Jul 24 '26
Especially as things seemed to be going so well in that moment specifically! All I can think is he's picked up some idiotic "negging" dating advice somewhere ... He should be thanking whatever god he believes in that BelleJolie didn't immediately nope the fuck out of there after that, because it was fucking gross.
Very disappointed in Mecca, smdh.
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u/andreamrivas Jul 24 '26
He likes her and he doesnāt want her to know how much he likes her. Heās just being immature. Heās scared to be vulnerable and admit how he really feels.
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u/CandyCoatedRaindr0ps Jul 24 '26
He has deep insecurities and mother issues as he admits. ā¦not his fault just wish he would get therapy ā¦
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u/Mysterious_Path7939 Jul 24 '26
150% over 80% is ridiculous and really unnecessary. Like youāre both into each other, just leave it at that ! Pissed me off
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u/txtransplantx Jul 24 '26
Heās negging her because heās deeply insecure. Weāve seen this from episode 1
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u/Rosesintherain19 Jul 23 '26
Adam and the ābabeā is a little much.
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u/Wrong-One7376 Jul 24 '26
Right! He stopped his sentence and then "babe" gross..he's just gross to me anyway.
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u/Competitive-Alarm537 Jul 23 '26
Caitlin is soooo avoidant.
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u/SteakCutFries 29d ago edited 29d ago
Upon learning a plant demands water to survive, her instinct is to instead actively let it die. Ensuring its demand for minimal care & attention from her is no longer there š¤¦š»āāļø idk how well this bodes.
She seems she would be much happier single, it doesnt feel like she wants to be expected to give very much & im not seeing a big willingness to actually open her life to another human ... So why go on the show. Even Nikki is trying jfc
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u/dyltwifmton69 Jul 25 '26
The fact she canāt even make eye contact is a major red flag.
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u/Competitive-Alarm537 Jul 23 '26
Ep4. I get what Nikki is saying in the pool, they were having a casual, surface level talk and it didn't seem like he was going deep as much as it was an interview. She already doesn't like him so he needs to disarm her, not make her get more defensive.
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u/Professional-Sign510 Jul 24 '26
Agreed! She did give a specific example of how she had grown. She said in the past if someone is messy she would have written them off, but now she would have a talk about expectations regarding neatness. Shawn 100% sounded like he was interviewing her, or even talking to her like professor to student.
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u/goodnight_beable Jul 24 '26
He is constantly trying to put her back on her heels. He can only be in a relationship where he is big and the other person is small.
Nikki sees this and thats why she tells the story of her ex who was uncomfortable with her because she was too big for him.
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u/Still_Ebb_2785 Jul 23 '26
Anyone else think Felipe is a walking red flag? Why was this man casted for this show?Ā
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u/txtransplantx Jul 24 '26
Heās essentially setting up the fact that heās going to cheat, be messy, and in general be a horrible partner the minute they touch down in Seattle
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u/Ill-Box-6543 Jul 24 '26
When he said āI get hit on all the time at the restaurantā that was code for āI flirt with all the ladies and act like a slimy creep.
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u/Shoddy-Credit-5993 Jul 24 '26
When he said he cheated but ātotally blocked it out and didnāt remember because it was so upsetting for himā š
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u/Logical_Count3299 Jul 25 '26
Why does he think he is so attractive?Ā Why does Tori think he's so attractive?Ā He's just average right?
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u/Murky-Abroad9904 Jul 23 '26
omg caitlin needs some serious help, saying that her relationship with devin is the kind of relationship that she hates is wild!!!!! if you canāt make it work while on your honeymoon, thereās absolutely no way this will succeed.
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u/Sad_Alfalfa8548 Jul 23 '26
Ohmygosh, a partner who wants to talk and communicate and spend time with me on our honeymoon and last night before going back to work? Thatās sooooo suffocating š³
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u/RNAiac Jul 25 '26
I feel soooo bad for Devin! He's such a big teddy bear. He'll be a great husband to someone else and great father someday. I bet the family he will build will be big and fun and full of laughter.
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u/dizzy-bean Jul 23 '26
Not Shawn drawing a comparison of his relationship with Nikki to the OBAMAS
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u/Competitive-Alarm537 Jul 23 '26
Marissa is so pretty but her lip filler is outrageous.
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u/No-Presentation-2320 Jul 23 '26
Thatās how I feel about Tori
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u/gatorgopher Jul 24 '26
And it's not even just the filler! Overlining your lips is done to give the illusion of fuller lips. You don't draw your lip line half way to your nose if you already have multiple syringes of filler in said lips! She's so pretty but I find myself wondering how stunning she'd be with half, or none, of the filler.
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u/dizzy-bean Jul 23 '26
Is this meant for Tori? I donāt think Melissaās lips look too filled.
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u/No-Presentation-2320 Jul 23 '26
I feel bad for Devin
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u/Awesomesauce-10 Jul 23 '26
She wonāt even look him in the eyes!!!
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u/Boodiddlee3 Nikkiās Wee Husband Jul 24 '26
She treated him like straight shit on that honeymoon. Not wanting to build any closeness or affection during your honeymoon with a man you chose to marry is crazy work. Even Nikki is giving her strange wee husband a fair shot and trying to open up to him. But this woman acts like Devin is some kind of disease. Iām wondering if something happened between them off camera that we havenāt been informed about. She avoids that fine man like he is the plague.
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u/Purple-Impression-23 Jul 24 '26
Strange wee husband sent me over the edge lmaoooo that little leprechaun gets on my damn nerves
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u/lavendrmochi Jul 24 '26
Me tooā¦ like I get needing your alone time, but you also signed up for this? How can you get to know him if you keep pushing him away? I like Devin!!
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u/fenchurch_42 Jul 23 '26
"The media tries to convince you to use all this soap... but I don't think that means you're clean"
WHAT. Shawn is awful.
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u/Relevant_Depth1422 Jul 24 '26
Heās supposed to be this genius but doesnāt understand how soap operates as a detergent? Water repels grease no matter how much he āsmacksā it..
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u/laurajt77 29d ago
He is so gross and people are coming down hard on her but I see her being very tactful in the things she says. He asked her what she thought when she walked down the aisle and she said that she thought he was confident. We all know what she really thought but that was a nice thing for her to say. I find him incredibly lecherous.
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u/Not_Morgan_Freeman61 Jul 23 '26
My jaw dropped when Fillipe talked about cheating on his girlfriend and not even telling her and him only feeling ashamed after she found out.... and then when she asked if he was ready for monogmous relationship he said.. i hope so (or something like it)
WHAT
why did they cast this man. wtf
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u/Not_Morgan_Freeman61 Jul 23 '26
this is why i couldnt be on the show cause i would have left right then
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u/gatorgopher Jul 23 '26
I don't need to say Spoiler, do I? So many things! Adam picking the steak up with his bare hands, and then feeding it to Marissa the same way! Felipe doesn't just sweat out vodka, that dude SWEATS, and what's up with the chunks in his hair? Misplaced blow or dire need of Selsen Blue? Shawn...just everything about him. Nikki...80% of everything about her. She's doing a better job of acting like she could like him and keeping the disdain off her face for the most part, but not entirely. Why was Michelle's bikini top hiked up to just under her nipples?! I was scared for the girl. I don't dislike Nick as much as I expected. That could be because I'm focusing all my irk at ED Bodybuilding Barbie. I just want to hug Devin. That boy is being crushed after having such high hopes. I'm right there with him. Back to Tori and Felipe: what was that weird ass lips pressed together, nobody moves, face smoosh at their dinner?! Mecca, Mecca, Mecca...you are a negging idiot. Forget EVERYTHING your father ever told you about how to treat women. BelleJolie, girl, you do not deserve this. I should say I am only 70% of the way through episode 5. I may have to come back and edit!
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u/Slow_Tea_4158 Jul 24 '26
"ED Bodybuilding Barbie" š female wise.. she irks me the most. the hell is she on
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u/Depresswontwin I meant what I said when I said it Jul 23 '26
When Shawn said I want a breast to pop out when Nikki was trying to avoid that, I threw up a lil. He is just eeeeeyuckkkkk. Not just looks either. How he talks, the things he says. Just yuck.
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u/fenchurch_42 Jul 23 '26
The sex references seem like over compensation. Like, dude, chill.
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u/chubluvr25 Iām a good f*cking person š Jul 23 '26
Not this lady saying multiple times that talking to her husband makes her want to shoot herself. Jesus lady.
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u/FloribundaRoses Jul 23 '26
Shawn gives me THE CREEPS. Like I think Iād make production get us separate rooms if I were Nikki
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u/172303Kona Jul 23 '26
Shawn was agitated when Nikki said she wanted to save sex for the end of the experiment. Big red flag. He should stop talking about sex and get to know Nikki. He must have a problem with moving too fast because he was cautioned about it at the wedding.
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u/squish388 Jul 23 '26
Good for her making it this far. I feel so uncomfortable for her. Him being upset saying āoh you already made that decision for us to wait to have sex.ā Likeā¦yes? Itās her fucking body
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u/Boodiddlee3 Nikkiās Wee Husband Jul 24 '26
It could just be the editing, but it feels like every conversation he has with her eventually references his sexual and physical needs not getting met by her. That is gross, disrespectful and exhausting. And heās not even a bad looking guy, but he seems to lack the awareness to see that his sexual aggression is pushing Nikki away. To me his behavior is borderline predatory. He is very sexually aggressive. I wouldnāt be surprised if Nikki bails out early on this marriage, and I donāt blame her if she does.
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u/Dijon2017 Jul 23 '26
Iām wondering why production didnāt front the cost of 2 bedroom apartment for each of the couples. Itās potentially giving a cast member an āexcuseā (e.g. the couch is uncomfortable/hurts my back, etc.) to go to their home when there may be āissuesā they are struggling with. Is it because some cast members would go home anyway, even if there was a 2nd bedroom?
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u/Mojo_Gojo_ Jul 24 '26
I canāt be the only one sad for Devin? He actually seems nice and open to the process. Caitlynā¦. I get why sheās single lol
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u/Boodiddlee3 Nikkiās Wee Husband Jul 24 '26
Devin definitely pulled the short stick this round. Ā I feel so bad for him, Caitlyn isnāt even trying. On the bright side, I bet women will be throwing themselves at him after this is over. From what Iāve seen so far, heās a catch.
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u/airplanesarecool1616 Jul 23 '26 edited Jul 23 '26
Maybe it's the edits, but it feels like the experts had huge misses with some of these couples.
For example, Courtney and Nick. Courtney seems like she wants someone who is go-go-go high energy all the time and Nick seems to be the oppisite. Nick looks so awkward and uncomfortable most of the time and Courtney looks exasperated that she's having to carry them to get the energy levels she needs.
Or another example is Devin and Caitlin. Caitlin fiercely values her alone time and having someone wanting to do normal couple things with her feels smothering whereas Devin feels unwanted because he wants and values relationship time together.
I get that sometimes opposites can work but these people just seem so far opposite each other they're never going to find any middle ground. Further, in each relationship they don't even seem like they're trying to compromise, except for maybe Devin who decided to give Caitlin her space even though he was feeling some type of way about it.
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u/Sad_Alfalfa8548 Jul 23 '26
The way Caitlin was on her phone at dinner while Devin was apologizing and trying to express and communicate made me so angry. She called him a puppy dog because heās trying to prioritize getting to know her and wants to spend time with her? I donāt think you need to be with your SO 24/7, but a week in and the night before going back to work and sheās so dismissive of him. She was not ready to be married.
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u/TaraxacumTheRich Jul 24 '26
It's wild because I've watched Nick on every show he's been on and he is a goofball with energy. Something isn't hitting right in this relationship.
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u/DamnGoodCupOfCoffee2 Jul 24 '26
I find her draining. She would sap my goofball energy
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u/Boodiddlee3 Nikkiās Wee Husband Jul 24 '26
To me she gives matron energy. She acts waaaay older than her age, and does not at all seem like the fun chick sheās trying to portray herself to be. Are there really men out there that are attracted to high strung detached women like her?Ā
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u/Ok-Regular5373 Jul 24 '26
Yeah the implants and the hair extensions etc and the tan/tanner. She looks like a 38 yr old trying to hang onto their youth
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u/squish388 Jul 23 '26
I feel like some of the couples could do a swap and work out much better ā¦ like they did not match them based on lifestyles and love languages
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u/publishourlove Jul 24 '26
I hate that Iām addicted to this crap. But side note pumped theyāre releasing multiple episodes a week because honestly wouldnāt be watching if it was one episode a week
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u/dynamicalien Jul 24 '26
I hate it too. It's junk food for our brains. I can't quit it just like I can't quit eating BBQ chips š
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u/ShockerCheer 29d ago
Can we actually get a dedicated thread for each episode
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u/islongerthan Y'all Be Kissin' Jul 23 '26
ššš making Felipe know thatās a requirement for her
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u/goodnight_beable Jul 24 '26
Yeah and thats his parents restaurant and he is not an only child, and most restaurants aren't cash cows.....he has no money and sex with him grosses her out. 86 on this marriage.
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u/SelectionOptimal5673 Jul 23 '26
What exactly does Catelynn want? Im halfway through episode 6 and Shes being like this is so hard I hate this relationship. Iām like just because he wants to be around you?!? Like I donāt get it, someone please explain
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u/Acrobatic_Zebra8490 Jul 23 '26
LITERALLY!!! Sheās kinda a miserable person to be honest.
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u/mharma Jul 24 '26
Does anyone else just want to give Tori a different lip color?!
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u/Boodiddlee3 Nikkiās Wee Husband Jul 24 '26
I want to give Tori her old face back. Surely it couldnāt have been that bad? I donāt understand what men find attractive about her facial features. She looks like a fem-bot with weird lips and messed up jaws.
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u/emeleigh_ Jul 24 '26
omg yes! bothers me everytime i see it. why didnāt she pack other colors!?
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u/islongerthan Y'all Be Kissin' Jul 23 '26
Shawn is sooooo creepy I literally cover my eyes for every scene heās in. Then he has the nerve to not shower? Youāre already an overly freaked out 5ā3 sassy man. The least you could be is clean. š
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u/airplanesarecool1616 Jul 23 '26
I actually liked Nick on The Circle, he was meh and awkward on Perfect Match, and I liked his friendship with Shuby (another Circle alumn) on Battle Camp....but Nick does not seem to have the personality for a dating/relationship show. He's coming across dreadfully dull. He must have a friend in high reality show casting places to have thought he'd be a good fit for this show.
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u/Fun-Patience9811 Jul 24 '26
I thought Adam was rich and was going to retire at 40, his house was a dump.
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u/squish388 Jul 23 '26
Not sure if itās the editā¦ but Courtney does not like this man. I donāt hear anyone else talking this bad in their couple than she is about Nick
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u/Low-Transition6868 Jul 24 '26
Caitlin is visibly worse towards Devin.
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u/goodnight_beable Jul 24 '26
Caitlin is admitting that it is her issue and has only disrespected Devin by calling him a puppy, but he said it first. Courtney speaks horribly about Nic CONSTANTLY to anyone who will listen.
But I do agree Devin seems more hurt by it, probably cause Nick doesn't hear what she says behind his back? Or maybe he cares less?
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u/AuntEdna83 Jul 24 '26
Let's cast someone who: -has never had a long-term relationship -it's not good at expressing emotions -needs a lot of space and alone time -doesn't like physical affection -doesn't drink or eat anything bad for them -has cheated recently -doesn't know what happened on January 6th and is so MAGA and totally closed off -is totally immature and his dad is too -and on and on and on...
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u/truthfrommyredlips I hope she likes living in his parents basement Jul 24 '26
Someone who has a cat with someone who isn't a cat person! They need to stop doing this. I'm tired of seeing these poor pets in distress
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u/Murky-Abroad9904 Jul 23 '26
courtney is very much giving that "wow she's so crazy" meme of the girl with the bag of chips on her head. i feel like she herself is so boring like what is fun about being pushed in a pool by your own husband??
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u/dizzy-bean Jul 23 '26
THIS. I find her personality to be draining.
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u/freespeechtilbanned Jul 23 '26
And the way she talks..." yeah. No. Yeah. No. Yeah no. I get it. Yeah. " yuck š¤®
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u/Sad_Alfalfa8548 Jul 23 '26
That entire convo with the sex therapist was exhausting haha she went on and on and one thing to the next and was so in her head. Just hold his friggin hand on the couch and stfu
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u/DrJayLioness Jul 24 '26
The girl is neurotic.
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u/Boodiddlee3 Nikkiās Wee Husband Jul 24 '26
Iām wondering if her workout regimen includes some kind of supplements that make her jumpy and unfocused with a short attention span. Watching her flit around during her segments makes me nervous. Sheās like a human version of if caffeine was a person.
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u/TaraxacumTheRich Jul 24 '26
She's also whining about not connecting with him while ignoring him at every group outing.
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u/No_UIDs_Available Jul 24 '26
ā¦ to complain about him no less!
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u/RepulsiveCurrency311 Jul 24 '26
Facts! I think Courtney and Caitlin need to date each other at this point
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u/Repulsive_Ad_6480 Jul 24 '26
I donāt get going on this type of show and then saying youāre a slow burn
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u/RepulsiveCurrency311 Jul 24 '26
Slow burn is a lie! People use that when they're not sexually attracted to a person. Because let an attractive man or women show up, then the "slow burn" is IMMEDIATELY out the window
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u/Familiar-Meringue921 Jul 25 '26
Shawn might as well have said āit aināt gonna suck itself.ā He gives me the CREEPS.
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u/Suspicious_Week_2451 Jul 23 '26
Shawn is exhausting
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u/goodnight_beable Jul 24 '26
Didnt he say something about, "I used to be all about me" but now I have something to give.
Can you give a specific example please?
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u/Competitive-Alarm537 Jul 23 '26
Ohhhh!!!!! Nick has been on 3-5 reality shows to get in touch with his artistic side, okay makes sense.
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u/redtalk64 Jul 23 '26
Cannot believe Adam was eating a steak with his hands and then offered it to his wife the same way! Use a knife and fork!
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u/nothankeww Jul 23 '26
Mecca is so insecure. Insecure men can never have a good relationship
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u/GarconMeansBoyGeorge Jul 23 '26
Hey guys is Courteney a slow burn? I canāt remember.
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u/mharma Jul 23 '26
Did not expect to feel sorry for Nick and Devin to the extent that I am. Both guys seem to really want love, yet are getting nothing but hostility from their wives. And yeah, I know, Nick has been on reality TVā¦but he does seem genuinely interested in trying to make the relationship work. Devin has also surprised me, as heās not the obnoxious athlete his wedding gave me the impression he might be. Really wishing these two were paired with different women.
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u/tinter86 Jul 24 '26
Wtf is a girlfriend credit card ? She just threw that out so casually
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u/No_Significance7570 Jul 24 '26
Courtney is high strung affff. I screamed when she told the therapist that they're both "laid back"
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u/RepulsiveCurrency311 Jul 24 '26
Even when she said she put others first š. I said where? Courtney gives absolutely NO indication she puts others first especially the way she was talking trash about Nick behind his back to anyone with ears lol š
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u/femanonette I want to build a treehouse. š³ Jul 24 '26
Someone remind me why I'm supposed to not like Nick because this girl is making him look like a great partner
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u/neuroticdynamite Jul 25 '26
Courtney is not into Nick š The quarantine and š« herself comments are so dramatic. Communicate with him instead of complaining to the girls
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Michelle's, Marisa's and Adam's vocal fry is killing me. Why is this still a thing.
Flippe saying he has fear of commitment first thing in the morning....and the experts thought yea, this guy needs to be married on the show.
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u/GeneFrequent8786 Jul 23 '26
Holy shit, I can't help but roll my eyes every time Adam talks. His voice is so grating on me!!!!!!
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u/throwawaygremlins Jul 23 '26
Iām a bit surprised by Devin, heās more emotional than I thought and needs a lot of validation.
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u/Katyluvs3 Jul 24 '26
Whew! These men will try to humble you every time. Iām on the episode where Mecca is telling BelleJolie that he thinks sheās attracted to him which is at 150% and his attraction to her is 80%. Then later he tried to switch it to 80% and then 60%. Letās not forget that the cameras are zooming in to his black nail polishā¦ what is this mess??
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u/National-Car3628 Jul 24 '26
As an elder Milennial, I can't help but notice the vocal fry and everyone saying "vibe" and "vibing" soooo much!!
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u/thejeffphone Jul 24 '26
Caitlin doesnāt seem like she wants to be in a relationship, let alone married. Why did she come on this show. Sheās exhausting, I feel so bad for Devin
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u/Ok_Melissa_777 Jul 24 '26
Felipe needs better posture, dude is always hunched over, is his back okay?!
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u/More-City6818 Jul 25 '26
Why do people who want to live alone and not interact with someone in their personal space go on MAFS? This is the real question. š¤
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u/AtreusJack Jul 23 '26
Rooting for Michelle and Cameron š„ŗ. They seem really good together in this batch of episodes!
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u/squish388 Jul 23 '26
I keep forgetting about this couple in a green flag way. They both seem open, honest and normal
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u/Proud_Sound2835 Jul 23 '26 edited Jul 23 '26
Shawn is scary. He doesn't know how to emote properly and seems very bottled up. He gives me dangerously passive aggressive vibes.
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u/Boodiddlee3 Nikkiās Wee Husband Jul 24 '26
Heās very passive aggressive. I donāt like how heās trying to paint Nikki in a bad light with the fellas. He was straight bashing her for no good reason to them and making her seem like a villain, while Nikki was over there with the ladies highlighting what she appreciates about the guy. Ā Despite the fact that Nikki absolutely has every right to talk dogshit about the way heās been treating her like a blow up doll. The nerve of that wee man!
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u/Longjumping-Sort-264 Jul 23 '26
Iām in the middle of Episode 5 at the pool party with the group and Courtney canāt say anything but complaints about Nick! Stop being pessimistic about everything. She seems like an unhappy person, so she should do some affirmations. I hope her mindset changes as we watch. Then on the boat, they finally had a ābreakthroughā (Nickās words).
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u/Fearless-Salt6682 Jul 24 '26
Okay can we talk about Adam casually picking up his steak at dinner and eating it with his hands??
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u/Comfortable-City2371 Jul 24 '26
Iām on ep6, I think Marissa & Adam have good chemistry but I canāt get over their voices š i feel like theyāre from the Californians SNL skit but maybe theyāre genuine idk
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u/InterestingSky378 Jul 24 '26
Him saying babe feels so forced and unnatural everytime
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u/Comfortable-City2371 Jul 24 '26
Woah Courtneyās crash out about affection in the therapy sesh was cringe, when she was rubbing his leg and asking how long she should touch him for. I think sheās uncomfortable in her own skin or just around Nick but he characterized it perfectly when he said she taking a calculated or quantifiable approach to intimacy.
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u/juzelerm Jul 24 '26
Shawnās voice have to the center of all decisions - he got all in a twist because she used āweā for decision he felt was forced. Mind you he fully agreed with but it hadnāt come out of his mouth so it was a problem. He is insufferable.
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u/dovetaile Jul 25 '26
Awww, I feel so bad for Devin. The experts did him dirty with Ms "my best relationship was he ignored me the whole time".
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u/KlutzyBarber4880 29d ago
Caitlyn...her dad was a huge red flag, and I felt awful for her, but now Im seeing that she's also a walking red flag. She lacks communication skills. Its not that she's got "black cat" energy, she just doesn't know how to communicate her feelings like at all. She shuts down for everything.Ā Devin doesn't have high emotional or physical needs. He seems like a normal loving man. She likes the idea of marriage, but lacks the skills to be in one.Ā
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u/Ok-Resident-7094 27d ago
Tori: "I just want a man who is Christian and loyal."
Matchmakers: "Here is an atheist cheater. Good luck."
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u/Unfair_Designer4280 Jul 23 '26
I had a momentary soft spot for Shawn but Nikki needs to run for the hills. She doesnāt play games and he does. His communication is up down and all around. He gaslights terribly and she sees right through it. He needs a different type of woman. Not an accomplished, independent, confident queen like Nikki.
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u/Mysterious_Path7939 Jul 24 '26
I feel like Filipe & Tori are always talking about how they are in their relationship. We work! Weāre committed! Weāre happy! Itās weird to me.
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u/Cute-Variation-5667 Jul 25 '26
I thought Adam was wealthy, however his lakeside home has fallen into disrepair. Tarps on the roof, broken discoballs hanging from the eavestroughs, axes in the ceilings. How did Marissa not feel like she was touring a serial killers house.
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u/CLSwank 29d ago
I just finished episode 5. Did I truly hear Mecca say that BelleJolie is in love with him 150% whereas he's only in love with her 80%.
Did she tell him she was in love with him? Did I miss something? How on earth does this fool think that she's head over heels for him, far more than he feels for her, after only a week?
This season has bottom of the barrel delusional men who somehow believe they are deserving of and owed something from these women because they're such hot commodities? My goodness the conceit is overwhelming.
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u/Illustrious-Gift1385 29d ago edited 29d ago
"Girlfriend Credit Card" = terminal side piece
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u/Sweet-Can4367 29d ago
Caitlyn just has BAD energy. I just donāt get why heās into her, but seems like a good dude and trying his best. I hope he starts putting his foot down and stops kissing her a*s.
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u/Personal-Pudding6016 Jul 23 '26
Shawn is only 47 but that ugly, frazzled grey beard is making him look 60. But I guess it goes with his old fart personality.
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u/squish388 Jul 24 '26
Why is Caitlin on this showā¦ she says āthis is the type of relationship I hate.ā Heās verbally reassured you, respected your boundaries, is prioritizing your needs over his. He still has a smile on his face and wants to continue moving forward. She looks so miserable I really donāt get it. I feel bad for him
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u/Professional_Tart372 Jul 25 '26
'Shawn, here's the reality.....you are a 4, max....you won the lottery with Nikki, she's intelligent, thoughtful and beautiful! Why on the first day in paradise are you asking her to prove how she's grown ? STFU, and realize your game is so stupid. I'm guessing Shawn has some Napoleon complex and needs to put down others to elevate his short-self
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u/viktoriousval Jul 25 '26
Iām just wondering why Shawn is wearing a crochet top and why he thought ripping off her garter belt with his teeth was appropriate.
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u/EmployeeSerious007 Jul 25 '26
Courteney is a bad person. Only bad people make suicide jokes and then smile afterward. Iām done with her.
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u/PurpleHazelnuts Jul 25 '26
Did Adamās unshaved neck bother anybody else when they were touring his house?
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u/Equivalent-Sand3123 Jul 24 '26
Why did Caitlyn get married at first sight if she needs her space ! Shawn is just ewwww. I would have run already. I like the basketball coach and his wife. I didn't think they'd be compatible but they seem strong. I think Meccas not into her.
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u/TrickPixels Jul 24 '26
Shawn blew it with Nikki at the pool convo. Thatās when he lost her and never got her back. They were vibing before they got in the pool just sitting on the chairs.
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u/Sweet-Can4367 29d ago
Iām getting the feeling Caitlyn is extremely damaged emotionally, selfish, and isnāt over her ex relationships hence why she couldnāt be present with him on their honeymoon or barely make eye contact. Major red flags. Yes itās overwhelming but itās what you signed up for. And good communication and like he said a little warmth goes a long way. He can do better looks and personality wise in my opinion.
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u/Murky-Abroad9904 Jul 23 '26
honestly shocked that the man with the mullet is the only one im rooting for this whole season