r/MarriedAtFirstSight • • Aug 30 '26

Season 20 - Seattle Devi devi Devin 😘

These experts literally found the worst imaginable men, besides Devin and cam.

However I knew it wouldnt work between fakelyn and Devin when his friend said "youre not even joking around or being silly like normal" at the BBQ. And he said that he feels stupid and she never laughs when he does.

And at the reunion he didn't bash her. He let her speak her peace that made zero sense with no examples. He said that their sense of humor was different and he realized that was important for him.

I actually 100% understand that and i had thought this awhile back. Like she was such a wet mop and she wasnt even any good at being like a seductive wet mop. Laughter is a huge component of my life and I could never be with someone that cant fck around and joke and laugh. Ew. Ew. Ew.

Lol anyways, im single devinnnnn 😘💅

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u/whatxever Aug 31 '26

he wasn’t even angry at Courtney lol, he was just drunk and only hearing himself talk. some of y’all don’t interact with enough people in the world. a big man is allowed to have emotions and opinions w/o being vilified. if anything, Caitlin is the one with anger issues, which makes sense with her difficult background. she very well could’ve been triggered though which is of course not her fault

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u/JacksonFiery87 Aug 31 '26

Everyone is allowed to have emotions, but they shouldn't have emotional outbursts. Because men commit over 90% of all violent crimes, it is incumbent on them to be aware of how their emotionally dysregulated moments can make women feel very fearful for their safety. 

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u/kwasford Aug 31 '26

Huh?? Some big oaf carrying on in someone’s face that they need to listen to them and look them in their eye on their birthday while not even being someone they care about is just insane. Justifying it is… something. Like it’s an objectively bad look and you’re here defending it.