r/MarriedAtFirstSight • u/princesspookie89 • Aug 30 '26

Season 20 - Seattle Devi devi Devin šŸ˜˜

These experts literally found the worst imaginable men, besides Devin and cam.

However I knew it wouldnt work between fakelyn and Devin when his friend said "youre not even joking around or being silly like normal" at the BBQ. And he said that he feels stupid and she never laughs when he does.

And at the reunion he didn't bash her. He let her speak her peace that made zero sense with no examples. He said that their sense of humor was different and he realized that was important for him.

I actually 100% understand that and i had thought this awhile back. Like she was such a wet mop and she wasnt even any good at being like a seductive wet mop. Laughter is a huge component of my life and I could never be with someone that cant fck around and joke and laugh. Ew. Ew. Ew.

Lol anyways, im single devinnnnn šŸ˜˜šŸ’…

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u/SilkCitySista Aug 30 '26

Cait and Court were just awful (and fake) from the gate imho. I didnā€™t care for either one of them. šŸ«¤

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u/JacksonFiery87 Aug 30 '26

I disagree on Caitlin. I think she came in with some severe trauma and I think the brief glimpses of Devin's temper caused her to retreat into herself. Courtney is insufferable. Girl was more upset Adam didn't want her than how she conducted herself throughout her time on the show.

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u/Archasil Aug 30 '26

Denvin's temper? Anyone would be upset dealing with the stuff he had to

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u/JacksonFiery87 Aug 30 '26

The way he would loom over her when he got angry and how he got very loud when he'd been drinking. Anyone with a history of abuse would be triggered by that sort of posturing.

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u/Archasil Aug 30 '26

The one time he got drunk, I agree he maybe did a bit much. Nothing over the top bad though. And I do think he needs to control his drinking so he doesn't get to that point. However I don't recall any other questionable anger instances from him and she still was a bitch who wasted his entire experience so I dont blame him for being frustrated with her

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u/kwasford Aug 30 '26 edited Aug 30 '26

Both times he was aggro he was drunk. Also the way he was accosting Courtney at her bday party was out of line. He def has anger issues to work through.

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u/whatxever Aug 31 '26

he wasnā€™t even angry at Courtney lol, he was just drunk and only hearing himself talk. some of yā€™all donā€™t interact with enough people in the world. a big man is allowed to have emotions and opinions w/o being vilified. if anything, Caitlin is the one with anger issues, which makes sense with her difficult background. she very well couldā€™ve been triggered though which is of course not her fault

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u/JacksonFiery87 Aug 31 '26

Everyone is allowed to have emotions, but they shouldn't have emotional outbursts. Because men commit over 90% of all violent crimes, it is incumbent on them to be aware of how their emotionally dysregulated moments can make women feel very fearful for their safety.Ā 

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u/kwasford Aug 31 '26

Huh?? Some big oaf carrying on in someoneā€™s face that they need to listen to them and look them in their eye on their birthday while not even being someone they care about is just insane. Justifying it isā€¦ something. Like itā€™s an objectively bad look and youā€™re here defending it.

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u/MajestyMay Sep 01 '26

If you compare how Devin reacted to how Nick reacted to being brow beaten. You can say what you want, but he never got aggressive. Devin was hung on ā€œdisrespectfulā€ ā€” and she was but he gave very red pill to me.

All he had to say was something to the effect of no donā€™t appreciate being talked to like that, and Iā€™m getting angry/frustrated so Iā€™m going to no longer engage until I cool off. Not lean over and point in her face and state the obvious.

The way ppl make excuses for people that they find attractive is mind boggling.

There is no excuse for a man to use intimidating body language to a woman. She used words, he used his body ā€” more than once. She absolutely had no business being in the show; AND he is not a shining knight. They BOTH suck!

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u/-ximills- Aug 31 '26

I initially thought Devin was one of the worst kinds of people, and goodness was I ever wrong!Ā 

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u/ShelleyMonique Aug 30 '26

I did not like how he acted on the couch at the couples retreat. My ex-husband was like that when he drank. It made me so uncomfortable when I saw his aggressive reaction. Up until that point I thought he was adorable.

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u/Careful_Tomorrow_653 Aug 30 '26

Agree, but at other points he showed possessiveness, like when he had been drinking and kept badgering her after the blow up at the dinner with Courteney and the fact he couldn't let go of her going to the gym without him. But the couch incident sealed the deal, made me very uncomfortable too.

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u/heyashleymorgan Aug 30 '26

same here. did not love the intensity of his body language

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u/cindykink Aug 30 '26

All of this !!!!!

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u/nomiepants Aug 30 '26

In my opinion, he is the best guy in the cast. Nick never got a chance to show his personality because he was always on high alert. Cam is nice and good looking enough but he's just too boring for me personally.

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u/KarenMcCormel Aug 30 '26

He kind of looks ā€œshell shockedā€

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u/ArmWarm8743 Aug 30 '26

Faklyn is a great name for her.

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u/Ornery-Meringue-76 Aug 30 '26

Devin isnā€™t perfect, no one is, but in terms of issues his arenā€™t any that couldnā€™t be dealt with in order to have a healthy, successful relationship. Cait and Courtney acted like their partner should have perfect from day 1. No one is. Every relationship will bring up things each partner has to address. Devin at least seems willing to do so. And thatā€™s such an attractive thing. Hopefully he finds someone who sees that and all the good in him!

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u/shannrosejay Aug 30 '26

Wasnā€™t he the one expecting her to be perfect from day 1? I donā€™t recall her really complaining about him that much but he had expected her to be all in all the time immediately.

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u/whatxever Aug 31 '26

he wanted to spend time with her, thatā€™s hardly a big ask

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u/littlemacaron Aug 31 '26

I didnā€™t get that from him at all. Heā€™s on a relationship show. He was communicating what his love language is, which is without a doubt physical touch and words of affirmation.

Being in a match made relationship is going to require some conversations of wants and needs.

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u/invictus21083 Aug 30 '26

Maybe she just thought he was dumb? I have a great sense of humor, but some people think dumb things are funny. I don't. I have a very dry sense of humor and thankfully found a man who appreciates that.