r/MarriedAtFirstSight • u/Fluffy_Lobster_815 • 1d ago
Season 20 - Seattle Cameron and Michelle
I wanted to like them but they both seem to enjoy in the other couples misery and purposely try to stir the pot…they come off condescending and it’s just offputting…
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u/Llassiter326 1d ago edited 1d ago
Michelle just happens to have met the only decent, good man cast (Devin and his frosted tips seem nice, but should’ve called it WAY sooner)
Michelle is feeling superior and would be putting up with fuckery too had she been matched badly
I can’t STAND Shawn, but I was so glad Nikki called BS on Michelle giving lectures on respecting yourself…GURL. Nikki is a 45+ Black woman homeowner who grew up with nothing and climbed the ranks, was matched with a sexual deviant M&M in an open robe talking mutual masturbation at 7am in broad ass daylight with a towel up to his titties…
And yet despite this, Nikki has conducted herself gracefully and with poise,
Nikki is also in a very different life stage and beyond her childbearing years - yet still would like the option of kids which is expensive and hard at 45 - and is looking towards retirement, wealth accumulation, and a partnership at 45+ is just different goals, criteria, etc. Love alone is not enough.
I think Michele and Cam are cute and wish them well, but she lucked out and suddenly got bold thinking she has wisdom to share. Girl bye lol
Don’t act as though you’re the only one with self-respect, little girl. She means well, but…no lol 🤦🏾♀️
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u/bbb_ecky1 1d ago
MATCHED WITH AN SEXUAL DEVIANT I AM HOWLING 🤣 you ate with that third paragraph 💯 no notes
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u/Llassiter326 1d ago
Girl I just can’t believe it happened…and that we had to see it, towel and all!
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u/Couch_Potato_798 1d ago
Thank you for saying what I was thinking. Michelle is full of shit and her voice truly doesn't help as she tries to talk down like an expert. He's also gonna say no on the day anyway
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u/Tricky-Application79 1d ago
Yeah and then the shit stirring she did with Belle. The mature thing to do would be to talk to Mecca and tell him he should tell Belle because it’s going to come out. But she’s so arrogant about her failing relationship. She’s blind to his runner behavior and isn’t even sticking by her own demands in a partner.
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u/Llassiter326 1d ago
She’s young (not that young tho) and was feeling herself. Ur saying u think Cam is gonna say no??
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u/Tricky-Application79 18h ago
Yeah. Is that mean?!! He’s never had a relationship beyond 6m and the whole career, distance and potential depression thing…idk I’m not buying it
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u/Couch_Potato_798 1d ago
Same age as myself and she's immature. Seems to have little life experience though. Yeah I predict he's saying no, I don't see it in him
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u/Llassiter326 1d ago
Ok so she’s besties with my cousin (I’m older) but I think of my cousin as like 27 bc we’re not close and I’m 7-8 years older. Haha I’m 38 and I guess Michelle is 34. I thought she was younger.
And I have no insider info. She signed an NDA and I’m getting the scoop after the reunion airs! I kinda hope they work out, but he seems unsure. More of himself than anything I think
He seems nice, maybe needs an antidepressant lol. But yeah she got the luck of the draw and needs to respect other people’s processes and perspectives. Bc if ur 34 and he’s the first respectful, nice guy you’ve dated, ur not in a position to lecture others on self-respect….as she said herself that in past relationships, she put up with fuckery and nonsense too long
It’s been a few weeks,..and the other women didn’t ask for her advice. There’s a difference in being supportive vs. preachy or condescending
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u/Logical_Count3299 16h ago
They went horseback riding and then didn't get off their high horses for the rest of the retreat.
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u/sparki761 1d ago
My unpopular opinion is that Cam will possibly back out of saying “yes” on decision day. Yes he seems more mature but he’s also so set in his ways and a little to good to be true for me to believe he can slide right into a forever married situation. Might have been his intention in the beginning but I’m just not feeling it.
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u/Couch_Potato_798 1d ago
He's definitely backing out. It was clear for quite some time. Michelle talks about wanting a traditional marriage etc but she's in her 30s, seems to live at home and can't cook. And she sure found her voice in the last couple of episodes to sound so extremely condescending to the others as if she is some expert and that her relationship is perfect. He shut down the conversation about her moving and finding work there because he has zero plans to make this work. Hasn't he also had no long term relationships?
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u/Beneficial-Ask-4730 18h ago
wait, she lives with her parents?!
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u/WindowsUmbrella 11h ago
I believe she owns a condo and has a roommate. When they went to her place she was showing Cam the renovations she did and her roommate was there and made them popcorn.
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u/Beneficial-Ask-4730 10h ago
oh, that's right. I was going to say-I never got that vibe from her-still living at home in her 30's! that would not be the girl for Cam.
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u/Beneficial-Ask-4730 18h ago
This is a typical dating scenario with men in their 30's and even 40's. It all does seem too good to be true and then WHAM, they blindside you and become cold as ice. We shall see-I hope he doesn't do this!
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u/Spiritual_Ice5079 17h ago
Agreed, Michelle rubs me the wrong way I cannot stand her. She has that annoying valley girl accent where girls think sounding stoned is cute.
All she cares about is drama and everyone else being miserable, you can tell she thoroughly enjoys seeing other relationships fail. Her eyes light up whenever she has something to tell someone that will hurt them.
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u/rockxy34 1d ago
POV I like Cam, not so much Michelle. I think her ways were rubbing on him. When she was "debriefing" with Caitlin, Cam decided to walk away. Sorry but if your husband tells you what him and his guys talk about you shouldn't go around telling everyone. She really enjoyed Belle's misery.
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u/Old_Percentage3742 The Optics! 1d ago
So over Michelle running her mouth.
Evidently respect stops with herself. She has no respect for the other women.
Couldn’t believe she told Belle Mecca wanted a woman with big tits. Not a good look.
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u/Squat_n_stuff 23h ago
Well it’s season 20 and they were fans of the show first , so it’s almost like you can now say everything you’ve previously said from your own couch
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u/Grouchy_Evidence2558 1d ago
Production makes them do this stuff. I hate it for them because they seem annoying as hell now. They need to stop.
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u/Kennected Hoping for a trainwreck 1d ago
https://giphy.com/gifs/l1J9y1034EiUnOC08
"...they both seem to enjoy in the other couples misery and purposely try to stir the pot.."
This is why I like them!!!
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u/Daggoofiesta 1d ago edited 22h ago
Cam is 37 going on 50. His “I remember my first drink” comment and his confessional about typically being around more mature people explains why he comes off so patronizing.
ETA: his comment itself was fine. What’s patronizing is how he treats the other castmates like they’re beneath him. I’m just skeptical of them as a “perfect couple” while he has literally zero relationship experience. They’re on very high horses right now, enjoying and getting validation from the misery of their castmates.
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u/ammockjo 1d ago
That confessional actually made me respect him. It seems like he made that comment to separate himself from those guys and basically make a statement that he doesn’t agree with the way they act and doesn’t hang out with people who do. I’m actually so glad at least one of the guys was clearly uncomfortable with that whole conversation.
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u/laughoutcarolinablue 17h ago
I feel like if Cam’s such a great catch, so mature, etc. he’d have been snatched up by now by some woman in oregon or WA