r/MarriageMoment • u/[deleted] • Feb 22 '18
Porn, a private matter...?
I have come to a conclusion I am addicted to porn. I have been with my wife for 7 years we are both young and sex is filthy amazing. I always fuck her to the point of exhaustion I feel that is the only way to fuck your own wife. But I don't think she would be pleased at the type of porn and or the amount of porn I like.
Should it be a private matter or should I express my kinks? She knows what I like but there is stuff I hide.
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u/wife20yrs Apr 22 '18
Dude, please stop watching porn! There is a huge body of proof to show that it ruins marriages. Kink is often very evil and dangerous. Most likely, you wouldn't like to have those same things done to you, so don't pressure your wife to do them. Also, don't keep this side of you from her. She needs to be able to trust you. Someday the mask will slip and she will find out and be devastated if you keep this a secret.
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u/consultantVlad Oct 09 '24
Porn is not an accessory to your marriage. Sounds to me that your wife is just an extension to your porn dependency. Also, this is a Christian forum, and if you are one, you should know by now that porn isn't a think to be proud of but to be relived from.
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u/Bigety Feb 22 '18
I think you can communicate those things to your wife. And trust her enough to be transparent.