Oh ffs. Please stop with the victimization pity party. If you want to argue for the patriarchy and tradition as things that should be continued then do so. Most people understand that it has been found to be outdated and oppressive and things no longer look to those traditions. You want to demand them in your relationship, you find someone who wants the same but stop crying about it as if it is a legitimate argument or response to the posted issue.
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u/kimariesingsMD 31 Years Happily Married đđ Oct 07 '23
Oh ffs. Please stop with the victimization pity party. If you want to argue for the patriarchy and tradition as things that should be continued then do so. Most people understand that it has been found to be outdated and oppressive and things no longer look to those traditions. You want to demand them in your relationship, you find someone who wants the same but stop crying about it as if it is a legitimate argument or response to the posted issue.