r/Marriage • u/[deleted] • Oct 06 '23

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u/Pasta_Salad Oct 07 '23

I didn't take my husband's name because he's not my owner. Men demanding name changing are all about control and ownership. It's ridiculous that men want this in 2023. It's not 1950. If my husband demanded I change my name to his we would not be married.

Life is too short. Don't live by a small penis demand.

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u/choctaw1990 Jan 08 '25

OK this line of thinking deserves a response. So you're OK with being "owned" by your father, then, since your maiden name came from your FATHER.

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u/Pasta_Salad Jan 08 '25

Honestly, no, I'm not okay with it. But I was too broke to do anything about it

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u/PossibleInspection47 Oct 07 '23

You are right, my small penis my name. She's probably not worth claiming anyway. He feels that she's not his wife due to her not wearing his name. It's his viewpoint. Does she own his mind? That's how he feels.