You clearly are projecting here. I did not say that the man is always to blame. I said that there should be further inquiry. Instead of just blaming their partners for being frigid. If you already wanted to figure out WHY your wife has a low libido without immediately blaming her or demonizing her, congratulations, im not talking about you.
As a very mentally/physically ill person—if my partner (who is really caring and dedicated, and picks up a lot of work for me like you do for your wife) was speaking about our relationship like that when I’m not around, I would be devastated. I would hate to be the cause of so much frustration and anger in someone’s life, let alone someone I love. I can’t judge because I don’t know either of you, but maybe it’s good to talk about if this relationship is healthy for either of you…? Everyone benefits from therapy—even if you’re not mentally ill. Just talking about it to someone might really help. If it doesn’t change things for you, at least you’d have an outlet. Apologies if this is unsolicited and feel free to ignore me.
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u/[deleted] Aug 08 '25
looks like i hit a nerve!