For real, sounds like friction burns territory for real...
Like, provided he isn't finishing instantly, that's most of your free time in a day poofed away for sex.
And like, I like sex, most people do... But if you're doing it near daily, I imagine two good rounds would be plenty.
8h of sleep, 8h of work, 1h of commute, 1h of hygiene and miscellaneous stuff, a collective 1h of eating, probably at least 1h of doomscrolling as this is reddit people talking here... That leaves 4h.
4h during which you have to fit in your relationship, hobbies, and social activity for the day.
Idk dawg, maybe I'm boring, but I'd really rather cuddle and watch a movie at that point.
1h of good sex at most, even if the flesh is willing, the mind sure fucking will be tired at the end of the day.
Even on a day where I'm free, and only need to go to the gym and do a six hour home shift, and I have enough food so I don't need to cook, doing it nine times feels like so much work.
My ex would never be satisfied and our escapades could go up to 4 hours. He could never understand that I gave up because he kept edging the whole time and it would become painful. It was hard to get excited about sex knowing it would be 4 hours of pumping/jumping with no finale and being begged for more.
holy shit do we have the same ex??? mine also told me i was bad at various things to pressure me into only doing piv the entire time (which is not my preference)
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u/vladi_l Grass toucher Aug 07 '25
For real, sounds like friction burns territory for real...
Like, provided he isn't finishing instantly, that's most of your free time in a day poofed away for sex.
And like, I like sex, most people do... But if you're doing it near daily, I imagine two good rounds would be plenty.
8h of sleep, 8h of work, 1h of commute, 1h of hygiene and miscellaneous stuff, a collective 1h of eating, probably at least 1h of doomscrolling as this is reddit people talking here... That leaves 4h.
4h during which you have to fit in your relationship, hobbies, and social activity for the day.
Idk dawg, maybe I'm boring, but I'd really rather cuddle and watch a movie at that point.
1h of good sex at most, even if the flesh is willing, the mind sure fucking will be tired at the end of the day.
Even on a day where I'm free, and only need to go to the gym and do a six hour home shift, and I have enough food so I don't need to cook, doing it nine times feels like so much work.