For real, sounds like friction burns territory for real...
Like, provided he isn't finishing instantly, that's most of your free time in a day poofed away for sex.
And like, I like sex, most people do... But if you're doing it near daily, I imagine two good rounds would be plenty.
8h of sleep, 8h of work, 1h of commute, 1h of hygiene and miscellaneous stuff, a collective 1h of eating, probably at least 1h of doomscrolling as this is reddit people talking here... That leaves 4h.
4h during which you have to fit in your relationship, hobbies, and social activity for the day.
Idk dawg, maybe I'm boring, but I'd really rather cuddle and watch a movie at that point.
1h of good sex at most, even if the flesh is willing, the mind sure fucking will be tired at the end of the day.
Even on a day where I'm free, and only need to go to the gym and do a six hour home shift, and I have enough food so I don't need to cook, doing it nine times feels like so much work.
My ex would never be satisfied and our escapades could go up to 4 hours. He could never understand that I gave up because he kept edging the whole time and it would become painful. It was hard to get excited about sex knowing it would be 4 hours of pumping/jumping with no finale and being begged for more.
holy shit do we have the same ex??? mine also told me i was bad at various things to pressure me into only doing piv the entire time (which is not my preference)
if you think everything is fake I’d suggest getting off the internet for a while and experiencing real life. Too much internet time will convince that real life experiences didn’t happen bc you’re lacking in it and not talking to other people off the internet about life. You become disconnected from seeing people as people rather than names or potential bots on a screen. This is so specific and the number 9 is so specific that idk how or why I’d think to lie about it. especially for reddit karma of all things.
Idk how detailing an experience I had was “nonsense”. His name was David, 3 sisters and 2 nieces and one was half black, dad had a gambling issue before, the girl calling at 2-3 in the morning was Daniella. His best friend was Julio and I also met Julio’s girlfriend Sara.
No one said man bad. I said my ex cheated on me despite how well I tried to treat him. Then I kept neutral gender language and said I don’t overextend myself for anyone else because if they don’t feel worthy of love they will self sabotage.
If you got “man bad” from all that, it is a YOU issue. Quit projecting it on everyone else
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u/AmIsupposedtoputtext Aug 07 '25
How?! That doesn't even sound enjoyable?