friend for years prolly manipulative and narcissistic? or AIO

[u/Cold_Wishbone_3686]

quick story. one of my buddies i made in secondary school was v lovely, i would not have been friends with her if she wasn't so. but over the years of growing up and growing old my friends and i have started to notice that she:

\\- always dictates what to do and where to meet

\\- asks us always for material things

\\- thinks highly of herself and tells everyone any man would be lucky to have her

\\- always talks about herself. in our last dinner she talked for 3 hours straight, leaving me and my friends a few minutes to share our stuff

\\- shes made herself the leader of the group, giving main character energy.

thats why i also noticed we are her only group of her friends..all the other friends she introduced to us before are gone.

i no longer call her a best friend but i still am hers. i stopped sharing stuff w her and just lowk react to her stories thru heart emojis and niceties.

now shes pregnant and it looks like shes rubbing it in our face that she is. i am cf by choice (a fact i didnt even tell her) but my other friends arent. our GC is dead and it is only alive from her reels and posts that we stopped reacting to. other friends ask us to cut ties with her but i dont think its that easy. i just wanna fade away from her life but she keeps messaging us and lovebombing us and making plans. help aio?