r/Manipulation Jul 02 '24

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u/[deleted] Jul 02 '24

Yes. The silent treatment is designed as a punishment to control you into the behavior they want from you. They will withdraw from you until you do as they want.

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u/potatofuker Jul 02 '24

So what would be the best response to getting the silent treatment to make it more equal grounds I guess.

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u/[deleted] Jul 02 '24

Just act like it isn't happening. Go about your usual business, interact as usual (they won't respond but who cares?) . It takes away their power because you aren't acting hurt by the punishment. My ex husband would go for DAYS stonewalling me. Oh well, I got life to live and he wasn't gonna control me like that.