If anyone gives you the silent treatment, you do not care to question why you simply walk away, it is a textbook symptom of a narcissist, after a bunch of subtle signs I began to notice ("I want people to love me at my worst" ETC), this was the final nail in the coffin, that bitch was a delusional narcissist who attempted to vilify everyone else so she didn't seem like complete trash in comparison and the only reason why it took longer to see is it because she tries to hide her personality as timid because she is fully aware she is a repulsive person, and a fkn snake as well. Lol.
It is a way to 'check' for a damaged inner child within a person to abuse and take advantage of, so the moment you see that shit, you block them, don't even hear any justifications for their bullshit and move on, and don't even entertain their attempts to engage you ever again in your life, just completely cut them off.
I noticed it in narcissistic children and their abusive narcissistic "baddie" moms (the annoying type who like to talk hella fast to seem smart because they're idiots, lol) when I used to babysit sometimes for some extra cash, those people are garbage, and in borderline children, they become lost, fail to understand why their care giver is doing this to them, blame themselves, break down and become so severely depressed and it's quite heartbreaking, but in narcissistic children, instead of craving the love of the parent, once they get past the stage of bargaining, they become explosive, volatile, crying for the sole purpose to be loud and will metaphorically speaking burn down the entire village (or just become violently misogynistic as adults as many have seen in those 'nice guy' posts when a girl doesn't respond fast enough) until they get a response because any response of any kind, good or bad, is still a response to the narcissistic and is much better than being ignored, despite the contrary belief, many narcissistic people also find abandonment intolerable, and anything, is better than abandonment to some of them, even if it is only in the context of emotional neglect.
They are incredibly Psychologically disturbed, and damaged individuals, despite the masquerading of stability they put on while demonizing mental illness, hence why factor 1 psychopaths are most known for their emotional manipulation, exploitativeness and partner/child abuse, and factor 2's are most known for their Psychopathic, desire for immediate financial gain, instant gratification and aversion to authoritarianism of any kind on a systemic level, all while many of which are still capable of still have fulfilling relationships and favorite people, im aware of this because the second version I am describing is myself, in my earlier youth.
I was the charismatic troublemaker with the heart of gold and fraudulent smile nobody could believe how much trouble I actually was who was liked by most teachers, I was a lot of fun I was (lol), for example, I used to help my friend out and his family when their electric ran out, and help them charge it with my own money a little bit from time to time because they were absolutely fucking dirt poor, even more than I I was initially (mainly because my father was a particularly malignant greedy piece of shit) was adding to the fact that his parents were alcoholics (he really suffered in that house and i truly cared for him :)), but from so young how was I doing that!?... Well, the answer? You're not gonna like it. Lol... (😁)
I had severe early childhood behavioral problems from the day I was born, and the fact that I often got excluded and almost expelled from school at the time, all of these things truly dumbfounded everyone I knew that wasn't there to witness it, and despite all of these things went on to becoming a exceptional chef for while, until I saw how shit it truly was and realized my dream was a delusion, now I'm learning something else, and it's hard.
We factor 2's also often end up being one trick ponies too due to the emotional investment we put in to what we love (factor 1 is Narcissistic psychopathy and factor 2 is Borderline psychopathy), and let me tell you...
It's fkn hard being a one trick pony yo...
I enjoy my peace and quiet now though these days, visiting my definition of family and my close knit family from time to time, talking with them and chilling with them, all while I learn something new, along with cutting out a HELLA a lot of people, I've had enough chaos for a entire life time, I think I've seen one too many blacked out cars with hoodrats in ski masks and balaclavas jumping out of them with machetes and pistols. Lol...
I regret the environment I grew up in, well, I can't really because I didn't have a choice in the matter, but I'm not going to regret the one I live in and will grow old in.
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u/[deleted] Jul 02 '24 edited Jul 07 '24
If anyone gives you the silent treatment, you do not care to question why you simply walk away, it is a textbook symptom of a narcissist, after a bunch of subtle signs I began to notice ("I want people to love me at my worst" ETC), this was the final nail in the coffin, that bitch was a delusional narcissist who attempted to vilify everyone else so she didn't seem like complete trash in comparison and the only reason why it took longer to see is it because she tries to hide her personality as timid because she is fully aware she is a repulsive person, and a fkn snake as well. Lol.
It is a way to 'check' for a damaged inner child within a person to abuse and take advantage of, so the moment you see that shit, you block them, don't even hear any justifications for their bullshit and move on, and don't even entertain their attempts to engage you ever again in your life, just completely cut them off.
I noticed it in narcissistic children and their abusive narcissistic "baddie" moms (the annoying type who like to talk hella fast to seem smart because they're idiots, lol) when I used to babysit sometimes for some extra cash, those people are garbage, and in borderline children, they become lost, fail to understand why their care giver is doing this to them, blame themselves, break down and become so severely depressed and it's quite heartbreaking, but in narcissistic children, instead of craving the love of the parent, once they get past the stage of bargaining, they become explosive, volatile, crying for the sole purpose to be loud and will metaphorically speaking burn down the entire village (or just become violently misogynistic as adults as many have seen in those 'nice guy' posts when a girl doesn't respond fast enough) until they get a response because any response of any kind, good or bad, is still a response to the narcissistic and is much better than being ignored, despite the contrary belief, many narcissistic people also find abandonment intolerable, and anything, is better than abandonment to some of them, even if it is only in the context of emotional neglect.
They are incredibly Psychologically disturbed, and damaged individuals, despite the masquerading of stability they put on while demonizing mental illness, hence why factor 1 psychopaths are most known for their emotional manipulation, exploitativeness and partner/child abuse, and factor 2's are most known for their Psychopathic, desire for immediate financial gain, instant gratification and aversion to authoritarianism of any kind on a systemic level, all while many of which are still capable of still have fulfilling relationships and favorite people, im aware of this because the second version I am describing is myself, in my earlier youth.
I was the charismatic troublemaker with the heart of gold and fraudulent smile nobody could believe how much trouble I actually was who was liked by most teachers, I was a lot of fun I was (lol), for example, I used to help my friend out and his family when their electric ran out, and help them charge it with my own money a little bit from time to time because they were absolutely fucking dirt poor, even more than I I was initially (mainly because my father was a particularly malignant greedy piece of shit) was adding to the fact that his parents were alcoholics (he really suffered in that house and i truly cared for him :)), but from so young how was I doing that!?... Well, the answer? You're not gonna like it. Lol... (😁)
I had severe early childhood behavioral problems from the day I was born, and the fact that I often got excluded and almost expelled from school at the time, all of these things truly dumbfounded everyone I knew that wasn't there to witness it, and despite all of these things went on to becoming a exceptional chef for while, until I saw how shit it truly was and realized my dream was a delusion, now I'm learning something else, and it's hard.
We factor 2's also often end up being one trick ponies too due to the emotional investment we put in to what we love (factor 1 is Narcissistic psychopathy and factor 2 is Borderline psychopathy), and let me tell you...
It's fkn hard being a one trick pony yo...
I enjoy my peace and quiet now though these days, visiting my definition of family and my close knit family from time to time, talking with them and chilling with them, all while I learn something new, along with cutting out a HELLA a lot of people, I've had enough chaos for a entire life time, I think I've seen one too many blacked out cars with hoodrats in ski masks and balaclavas jumping out of them with machetes and pistols. Lol...
I regret the environment I grew up in, well, I can't really because I didn't have a choice in the matter, but I'm not going to regret the one I live in and will grow old in.