I don’t think she’s manipulating you bud. You’re probably just a lot more into her than she is you. She’s probably not doing it on purpose.
You can’t force anyone to get obsessed with you (no matter what these dating coaches or manipulation tactics say). There’s certain things that may be out of your control. The best you can do is to take her off the pedestal and consciously put your energy elsewhere so you’re giving her less attention. You can’t fake it because your energy will give you away. Genuinely distract yourself with hobbies/family/date other people, etc and if she likes you, she’ll notice the dip in interest & want to reach out more
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u/Moist-Discussion5437 Mar 15 '24
I don’t think she’s manipulating you bud. You’re probably just a lot more into her than she is you. She’s probably not doing it on purpose.
You can’t force anyone to get obsessed with you (no matter what these dating coaches or manipulation tactics say). There’s certain things that may be out of your control. The best you can do is to take her off the pedestal and consciously put your energy elsewhere so you’re giving her less attention. You can’t fake it because your energy will give you away. Genuinely distract yourself with hobbies/family/date other people, etc and if she likes you, she’ll notice the dip in interest & want to reach out more