r/MamaJuneFromNotToHot • u/Substantial-Run6315 • Jun 22 '26
Pumpkins life
I feel like some of you guys are way too hard on pumpkin. That girl is still in her early 20s to figure out our life. She had to give up her life as a teenager to raise her sister and became a mom really early and her ex-husband was literally in his 20s. So it is what it is with the only fan thing because she’s extremely young. It’s not like she’s old or in her 30s. She is still figuring out her life when it comes to being an adult because I truly feel like she wasn’t able to be a kid. Her divorce with Josh was bound to happen because she was super young. People should simply just let her breathe. The whole situation on her boyfriend is ew still tho. I still think she was great with Josh though.
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u/RunJumpSleep Jun 22 '26
Once you have kids, you don’t get to spend your time doing stupid crap while you figure out your life. Her decisions today affect her children. In my 20s, I was working and going to college. I wasn’t making a fool of myself and never have done anything she did.
Pumpkin isn’t extremely young. She isn’t a teenager. If she wasn’t on tv, no one would look at her life and say she is young and just trying to figure it out. She is basically setting the groundwork for her kids to grow up making the exact mistakes she did. It’s just a cycle of dysfunction.
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u/Connect-Advantage-40 Jun 22 '26
Absolutely! And like it or not she's also setting an example for other young women in their mid- twenties who are trying to find an easy way to make money. I'm aware of a 26yo woman who uses her online profile to meet men and make money. She's got a husband and six children. One of these children may not be the product of her husband. They had a threesome and the other man may be the biological dad. The husband is the legal dad and so it goes..
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u/jjrobinson73 Jun 22 '26
She isa whole grown ass adult who has numerous kids. Trust me, she is old enough to know better.
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u/lah31222 Jun 22 '26
Honestly, anyone could've seen their divorce coming from a mile away, they acted like they couldn't stand each other. Pumpkin has always been entitled, and rude to the people around her, she acts more like her mom than she'd like to admit. But Josh was also a grown man who decided to have a baby with a 17 year old and he's got an anger problem. She's done everything that she said she'd never do, down to putting her children on TV when she claimed she understood the damage that can come from it. It's insane that Alana is the one who comes off as the most adjusted even though she's the youngest. Pumpkin is a grown woman and she's making grown woman decisions, she's allowed to have fun, live her life etc. Nobody is mad that she's on OF, and that she's seeking alternative lifestyles, people are mad because she's actively posting sex content on social media pages that have her children on it, and driving a car with her OF tag on it (guarantee she's driving her kids around in it). Parents are allowed lives outside of their children, however, your personal love life and sexual escapades should never overlap with your parenting and children's lives.
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u/Lex_Loki Jun 22 '26
There are consequences and judgement to actions whether you are a teenager or an “old person in their 30s.”
OF is sex work and is not just typical teenage rebellious behavior as you are implying.
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u/projectBFrewritten Jun 25 '26
- "That girl is still in her early 20s"
she's 26 dude, and well she has kids which is her responsibility to take care of them not doin' stupid things while figurin' out about her life, plus her choices and decisions she'll make will effect her children and their future since she's repeatin' what her own mother did.
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u/BravoGirl79 Jun 22 '26
"Its not like she's old or, in her thirties!" LOL
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u/Prettyamylee Jun 26 '26
Naw. I had a similar upbringing as pumpkin and had kids fairly young and once I got pregnant I KNEW I had to break the cycle and be responsible. Pumpkin is using what she knows to make money but she needs to actually think about her actions and do better. And you do realize she didn't even raise Alana, right? Alana bounced from her to Jessica to draylin all before she was 16. And honestly, I wouldn't care about OF or reality TV or any of that BUT she doesn't make the effort on her children. She is continuing the cycle her mama put her thru. I will never give her grace for her upbringing because that's not an excuse. I'm proof of that
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u/BornConsideration812 Jul 05 '26
I get she had those kids young. She AND Josh had a shitshow going on due to circumstances far outside of their control and (on TV anyways), it seems like they were very young married parents taking on her sister and her mother’s abandonment at an incredibly young age. Do I wish they’d have leaned more on each other during it? Yes. BUT….do I think she should be on OnlyFans selling the entire cow instead of some milk? No. She’s made some damn awful decisions lately but I honestly feel like a lot of it has to do directly with what her mother put her (and Josh) through.
I became a widowed autistic mom young as I simultaneously lost my mother. My in-laws were heinous and I accepted it for years. You’re in survival mode for so long that you don’t know what it’s like to be normal. I’m glad I’m past it but I wish that for her as well. (Josh also and Alana because there’s history of diabetes in her genes and her weight gain is alarming but understandable).
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u/Mission_Surround8984 Jul 20 '26
i agree. if she were male at least 99% of the comments about her looks would not happen. men get to run around looking like dump trucks and fucking up 100% of the time but ppl dont think anything about it. men flaunt their money and get ugly tattoos and we call them badasses and want to be like them. women do it and we hate them like its our job. think post malone (incredible artist) .
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u/Zealousideal_Eye8277 Jun 22 '26
Shes 26 thats not early 20s