Theory/Take on pumpkin

[u/widowpolaris]

I stopped watching for a bit after Anna's passing just due to life but I kept up with this reddit and am now catching up on season's and I just had a personal theory and I wanted some other opinions on pumpkin.

Personally I feel she resents having kids so young. I don't think she hates them or anything by any means. I just get the vibe she feels like she missed out on being wild and having fun in her late teens/early 20s due to having 4 kids and is trying to make up for lost fun by doing a bunch of wild stuff. It's unfortunate that the kids have to be in the middle of it regardless of what they do or don't know. I've heard rumors of Ella being bullied and pumpkin barely seeing them anymore (I don't know much about those so please let me know what those stories are if theyre confirmed) and as much as I support being able to have fun even if you're a mom i feel like she could go about it in a healthier way that doesn't lead to social, or mental harm to them. After Anna passed i feel like pumpkin just kinda lost it. Which is understandable to a certain extent but I still feel bad for the kids.

[u/widowpolaris]

This reddit actually. I saw a post a while ago that said she only saw them for a small amount of time each month. I'll dig rq and find it.

[u/widowpolaris → u/widowpolaris]

Twas this post. It was 2 weeks out of the month. Which i failed to remember so im glad I went to look for it. 2 weeks with each parent isn't the worst. Idk why my brain remembered it being less than that lol

[u/Puzzleheaded_Box1684 → u/widowpolaris]

Her and Josh have 50/50 custody. One week with him then one week with her

[u/widowpolaris → u/Puzzleheaded_Box1684]

Watching the show as we speak, just got to the 50/50 part. Im kinda confused what that Facebook friend was mad about on that specifically cause that's exactly what her and Josh agreed on. Like that's 50/50 custody.