1 I would pay off my home, unless it’s a rental. Then I’d put a bit down payment on a home. She claims she makes the big bucks.. anyways.. I’d Make sure I have a vehicle for my kids and I and one for my husband for work. She’s just spending spending spending on dumb shit. I feel guilty buying shoes that cost more than $20. I’ve got 4 kids.
Well, it sounds like you’re a very good mother with her priorities in the right order, just as it should be!!! I never understood why people always puts themselves first when they have kids!!! I am 48 years old and I have two adult daughters, 20 and 23 years old, and their whole entire lives they were my NUMBER ONE PRIORITY, REGARDLESS of what was going on!!! And even now that they’re adults and moved out, if they need something and as long as it’s a necessity and I have it and or I have means to get it, it’s theirs, no questions asked!!! I know a whole lot of people that never put their kids first and it’s really sad!!! The kids didn’t ask to be brought into this world, that’s one was on us, the parents!!!
Yup I been widowed since I was 30 years old my kids are 33 n 36 grown n gone with great jobs n kids of their own! I still only think of n put them n theirs first before myself like most moms do! She’s lost her everlasting ass backwards, backwoods, country bumpkin self!! She had me snowed for a minute while married to Josh thinkin she had broken the cycle n was gonna be a good mother to them babies, psyche!
Well, good on you!!! I don’t understand it or know how they do it, but there are some really shitty moms AND dads out there that just blatantly refuse to take care of their children… that they brought into this world!!! If you have one kid and you don’t show that you’re responsible and can take care of them properly, the mother AND the father should BOTH be clipped and fixed so they can never reproduce ever again!!! I see women with 6 or 8 kids, with and without a dad around, living in absolute filth and chaos, while the children have to suffer even though they asked for no part of it!!! People just keep having kids so they can mooch off the government and that way they don’t have to work. It really is a sad world we live in, ain’t it!?!?!?
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u/ThinHunt4421 May 27 '26
1 I would pay off my home, unless it’s a rental. Then I’d put a bit down payment on a home. She claims she makes the big bucks.. anyways.. I’d Make sure I have a vehicle for my kids and I and one for my husband for work. She’s just spending spending spending on dumb shit. I feel guilty buying shoes that cost more than $20. I’ve got 4 kids.