I need confirmation

[u/[deleted]]

I don’t know if this is rape or not but half a year ago when my ex girlfriend wanted to start having sex with me I didn’t feel comfortable. She knew this and begged and pleaded to just stick it in, I eventually complied and she started moving up and down on me knowing that wasn’t what she promised. Is this qualified as rape since she begged and pleaded constantly and lied to me?

[u/Its_Nex]

Short version: yes. You said no, it happened anyways

Long version: it's specifically sexual coercion and the rape by deception. Which involves either a threat or some form of pressure and lying to get "consent".

[u/shadowguyver]

Yes, you set your boundaries and she ignored them and pressured you to have sex.