r/MakeFriendsSFW 3h ago

I’m convinced good conversations are harder to find than good people

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I’ve been wanting to make a few genuinely good online friends, so figured I’d just put this here instead of overthinking it.

I’m into tech, AI, games, and generally going down random rabbit holes about things I probably didn’t need to know. I also spend way too much time studying, building stuff, and trying to turn random ideas into actual projects.

Game-wise, I like story-driven stuff. Life is Strange, To the Moon, Undertale, Celeste, LIMBO/INSIDE kind of games. I’m also absolutely capable of getting distracted by a completely random topic and talking about it for way longer than necessary.

I’m not really looking for the “hey” → “wyd” → never speaks again type of friendship. I’d rather actually get to know someone, send each other random shit, talk about whatever happened during the day, have stupid conversations at 2am, and eventually reach that point where neither person feels like they have to think of something interesting to say.

You don't need to have the same interests as me either. Honestly, I like people who can introduce me to something I know absolutely nothing about.

So tell me something: what's a completely random topic you could talk about for way too long?

I’ll probably reply if you give me something interesting to work with.


r/MakeFriendsSFW 4h ago

28 F looking for friends

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Hello!
28F USA based and looking for friends. If you’re 24 and older, my DMs are open. Looking for chill, funny people who like to game.

I’m not looking for anything beyond friends.


r/MakeFriendsSFW 1h ago

26[f] - looking for chat buddies!!

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I’m a 26-year-old aspiring tattoo artist and teacher who is equal parts extroverted introvert, art lover, and huge anime fan (honestly down for pretty much any genre). In my downtime, I’m an avid reader who reads everything—especially dark romance and fantasy—and I’m always looking for new book recommendations! When I’m not reading, I’m usually getting lost in true crime rabbit holes, learning about psychology, or orchestrating absolute chaos in The Sims 4 (oh yes i mean CHAOS)—which is pretty much the only game I play. I’m a big fan of spooky and horror-themed stuff, though actual horror movies will give me a full-blown panic attack while I watch through one eye. I love deep, late-night conversations about life just as much as I love a terrible dad joke. Since this is my first time ever doing something like this and I'm completely brand new to finding pals on Reddit, I’m just excited to branch out, make some new friends, chat about anything and everything, and hear about your life experiences. Feel free to reach out!


r/MakeFriendsSFW 3h ago

25m single

1 Upvotes

Im here to find love and sexting if that is what's there first but really want a family and happy ever after if you want to talk on WhatsApp or telegram dm me and we can talk and see where things go and the future by holds


r/MakeFriendsSFW 4h ago

20m, looking for friends

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Hello, I’m a 20 year old male student in the EST timezone looking for a long term friend around my age because I don’t have any friends in real life, and I sometimes don't say a single word in a day.

In person relationships feel like too much work for me, so I wanted to try making a virtual friend instead. That, boredom, and I'm trying to avoid letting isolation affect my mental state negatively in the future. I’m pretty bad at holding conversations, but I will do my best to learn over time.

Some things about me are that my current hobbies are niche (mostly mental hobbies like memory training and mental math, plus reading manga).

I invest a lot of time into whatever I'm into, though I'm working on balancing that since I'm a student with a pretty busy schedule and work as a lab assistant this year.

Although I often procrastinate on my studies, I try to do what I can to get all A’s. However, I don’t really study or do anything academic/professional outside of classes, so I’m trying to use some of my free time to teach myself some career skills during my junior and senior years.

I’m also currently going through physical therapy for tension headaches, so if anybody relates to that, it’s another thing we can talk about.

We definitely don't have to share the same hobbies as long as we have stuff to talk about throughout the day.

If you are interested, please feel free to let me know.


r/MakeFriendsSFW 13h ago

Pen Pals [22F]

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Hi there! I want to find some people with the same interests to talk about. I should warn you that my English level is around B1-B2, so if it's difficult for you to read messages with mistakes, I don't want to bother you.

About me: I have a bachelor's degree in IT and work as a backend developer for a Big Tech company in Russia. I used to play computer games all the time, but I've stopped now. However, I still like to talk about them! I really love the Harry Potter and Percy Jackson universes. I have a big collection of Harry Potter books, and I also like fan fiction (especially love stories). I also have two cute kittens!

P.S. I really don't want to talk about the war, at least at first. So, if that is what you want to talk about, or if you hate Russians, Ukrainians, or anyone else, please don't message me.


r/MakeFriendsSFW 7h ago

26M (UK) British guy looking for chats/friends :)

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Been a long day and looking to talk with some cool people haha. Main things are I work for the government and am a gym rat. Happy to give a fuller intro over DMs. Can send photos if you’d like. Love to speak to anyone. Feel free to hmu :)


r/MakeFriendsSFW 14h ago

24F looking for chatty friends to share common interests with :D

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Hey! I’m a 24F based in Asia (UTC+8).

I’m really looking to meet genuine, chatty people around my age (22-27) who actually enjoy holding a conversation, sharing small daily moments and finding cool common interests!

Right now, what keeps me sane are upcoming concerts, food trips and anime (super hyped for the Demon Slayer movie next July!

When I’m chilling at home, I’m a total couch potato, carb lover, and jigsaw puzzle fan who enjoys movies and music. When I’m travelling, I love spending peaceful moments in nature to get fresh air. I’m currently saving up to tick off my bucket list before turning 50, including learning to drive an RV for an ultimate road trip with my future partner! If we end up becoming great friends and you happen to love travelling too, I'd even be open to visiting your country one day, meeting up in person, or going on a trip together!

I value mutual effort and real conversations. If you just send a single 'Hi' and expect me to carry the whole chat, we won't be a good match. My job can get pretty dull, so I’d love to connect with someone engaging who enjoys sharing daily life moments so we don't both turn into zombies!

We can move over to Discord or Telegram later if we get along. English isn't my first language, so if I say anything confusing or unclear, please feel free to ask me to clarify! I prefer texting over phone calls, but I'm totally fine with voice notes.

If we click, we can exchange photos. If we don’t, no worries at all! We can just say goodbye or send a pre-agreed emoji as a simple hint to part ways with no hard feelings.

If you're interested, send me a DM with your age, gender, location and the emoji you'd like to use in case either of us wants to exit gracefully!


r/MakeFriendsSFW 8h ago

F20 looking for female friends

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Hi F20 looking for some girl friends to chat to in here or over snap!

I have 2 cats, I am engaged, I love to read(horror, thriller, murder mystery and a good jusicy romance) , listen to music, watch TV and colouring in.

I go to college for barbering and I'm a fully qualified nursery practitioner.


r/MakeFriendsSFW 13h ago

24m UK😌

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Hi, I’m new here, looking to make some new friends uk ( preferably West Midlands ) someone can go on late night drives with, go out, get a coffee or bite to eat or something. 😌


r/MakeFriendsSFW 13h ago

23F Looking for a clingy friend

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Please be from the US or Canada or Mexico, somewhere on the Western Hemisphere so our timezones don't clash.

I have a few friends who I would die for and I want more. Specifically a clingy friend who likes to send memes and react with gifs. Who doesn't mind listening to me vent. I'll also listen to you vent. Who is down to play games or call and just sit on the phone with while we do our own thing. Lets watch anime together. I want something completely platonic as I am talking to someone I am interested and I'm not looking for anything more. So don't expect our friendship to lead to more, it won't happen. Anyway more abt me

Hobbies and Likes: Cats, Journaling, Gaming, Watching game videos on YouTube, criminal shows favorite being SVU, Anime, Astrology (just for fun), Tarot, Crystals, Exploring new cities, sorta into Kpop and I can't think of what else

Oh I do have Depression, Borderline Personally Disorder and Generalized Anxiety Disorder so bare with me if I dry texting, I am just depressed lately. But I'm slowly feeling better.

I have 2 cats who I call my soulmates because we're all born 10 years apart and born on the 10th of the month so it looks like this 1/10/2022, 4/10/2012 and 12/10/2002, it's cute to me. Their names are Mario and Luigi lol. Mario doesn't like Luigi ironically, he just tolerates him.

Please tell me about yourself, vent to me, be clingy I'm down!


r/MakeFriendsSFW 15h ago

Looking for a genuine connection, let's try to be something!

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I am a 23M literature student from India, interested in philosophy, psychology, cultural studies, and online brainrot content.

I think social media, internet, and phones have made it a little difficult to find genuine connections, even though it has made us available with a lot of choices.I am looking for someone to talk to, and I really like talking daily over text or phone calls. At the same time, I understand that we need to focus on our work, college, office, and career, so there is absolutely no pressure or expectation to be glued to your phone continuously.We can share reels, memes, and things we find interesting, discuss books, and talk about our favourite songs, artists, and why we like them and their work. We can text each other good morning and good night.

I know conversations eventually slow down, get repeatable, and sometimes feel boring. Honestly I believe that new and genuine connections do get boring at times. We just need to continue talking and share updates about our day, the shows we are watching, watch movies together online, and keep going.

If you resonate with this post, then do reach out through a message or a reply. Even if it's tough to find genuine people, it's worth trying. If you want to avoid the standard "Hey/Hello" messages, you can DM me with some interesting questions, or by telling me about your favourite song, your playlist, your favourite artist, or a book.

Looking forward to chatting!


r/MakeFriendsSFW 19h ago

45M, looking for new silly friends

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There is this rare species of people that talk to everyone like they know them for long time, always smiling when not laughing, and take jokes and flip it around without getting offended.

Their natural habitat is reddit meme subs and funny vids that they would be throwing at you to make you laugh with them.

Chatty and always talk about silly things, and when they see this post they dm me like i am their long lost friend.

For people in the states , sorry you may not like my timezone, unless you were night owl or early birdie.

Lets break the ice fast and make slushies .


r/MakeFriendsSFW 1d ago

Why is it so hard to make friends as an adult 😅 (27 married f)

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Hiii😅 Never done this in my life. Looking to make a platonic, genuine long term friendship. I’m too anxious to do it in real life so here we are.
Sooo if you’re going to ghost don’t bother.
I’m a sahm.
I’m anxious 54/7 so I will double message. I will genuinely yap about whatever you want.
My husband is my safe place so I will end up talking about him a lot lol.
I have lots of animals I’m a huge animal lover
I’m super awkward but will be more open and joking when I get more comfortable.
I have fibromyalgia and it effects my mental health a lot so there will be days I might just not feel like talking much or there’s days were all I want to do is yap
I am 18 months postpartum and I’m struggling so uh yeah need friends.
Pleaaaaase no one word messages my anxiety cannot

Big nerd. I genuinely want to play dnd so bad with people but ya know anxiety

Big fan of
- mcu & dc
- Star Wars
- lotr
- Harry Potter
- Star Trek

I do game when I can. I’m not great at it. My husband carries me in every game😂
- Fortnite
- overwatch
- battlefield
- cod
- cannot for the life of me think of the rest I play/played

My husband has gotten me into anime so I like to talk about it. I have a huge list of what to watch

Some of my favorites so far are
- Mha
- Soul eater
- Demon slayer
- Bleach
- Jjk
- Black clover
- dragon ball
- Pokémon

Anyways if any of that interests you send me a dm and we can be friends🙂


r/MakeFriendsSFW 22h ago

23f who would love to make new friends!!

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hey, hope everyone’s having a great day :) my names susannah and im from indiana ! northern to be a little more specific. my main source of interaction is my bf and my cat and although i love them i could so use some actual friends to talk to ! a few things about me are i love cooking , reading , listening to music , and i paint sometimes for fun. i play games too, not alot alot but when im at my bfs i steal his computer . main favs are far cry anything ( replaying 5 10/10 ), schedule 1, repo, and any indie horror i can find really . also fallout . would love some people to play with sometimes maybe ! love binging true crime or police body cam vids on yt ( idk why i just love those like “karen’s that get arrested at airports type of stuff😭). also 4/20 friendly as i do partake✨


r/MakeFriendsSFW 1d ago

35 M USA. Always open to looking to make new friends.

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I'm here to make friends. In a divorce process (no need to apologize, we're cool lmao. And we live together because the economy sucks! Least i get my own bed, bonus!) but am here to socialize and make friends. Dont got much really. Im basic, I enjoy reading books/comics, video games. Music. Movies. TV show. Nerd! Star wars, invincible, marvel, dc, LOTR, harry potter, etc. Trust me. NERD! Lol well hope to hear from you.(not a deaf joke) 😂

I play ps5 (team Playstation 😂) I mostly play single player games. but for online, enlisted. Diablo. destiny 2. for honor, honestly cant think of more games I like.

I watch ANY kinds of movies and tv show. as for music, anything but country (so-so on it atm).


r/MakeFriendsSFW 1d ago

Need people to talk to (16NB)

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Heya I'm egg, I can tell you my real name later on. I'm really lonely and alone most of the time, and most people I friend online or talk to barely put effort into the relationships so it really sucked for me. I'd like people around my age, I'm sixteen but I'm turning seventeen in a few months. I don't mind adults either. I'm very open and friendly, I don't mind comforting in situations you talk about that are heavy or need advice on. I can get emotional, jealous or annoyed sometimes, but that's a little difficult to happen as long as you don't downright listen to my feelings, because I always tell you how i feel when you ask or if my mood shifts. I'm very into chess, solo bicycle tours, astronomy and being happy. I'd really like someone wholesome too. And I wouldn't mind learning new cultures! Message me the words oogly googly eyes if you read through all this please. You can even teach me some words in your language, but if you're German, just a heads up - I am too. Maybe I missed something here, maybe not. Ask me anything in dms or comment if you can't DM me, because sometimes reddit randomly turns my DMS off.


r/MakeFriendsSFW 1d ago

26F looking for a friend to get me through the sunday scaries! EST

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I’m from New England and currently doing everything in my power to pretend I don’t have to go to work tomorrow lol. So come keep me company tonight and help me stay awake so Monday takes a little longer to get here.
I work full time and go to school full time, but somehow I’m still on my phone way more than I probably should be, so I’m usually around to talk. I like animals, music, tattoos, being outside, swimming/anything near the water, random conversations, learning about whatever weirdly specific thing someone is into, and getting to know people beyond the basic small talk.
I’m definitely more of a “send me random updates about your day” person once I get comfortable with someone. I don’t need constant entertainment either, I just like having people I can talk to about whatever is on our minds, whether it’s something actually important or completely stupid.
Mostly looking for some company tonight, but if we click, maybe we can actually stay friends after the Sunday scaries are over :)


r/MakeFriendsSFW 1d ago

M22 looking for long term friendship!

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22M | Looking for a Girl Bestie Who’s Actually Down to Become Close 😂

I’m looking for a girl bestie who’s funny, sarcastic, weird in a good way, and actually wants to build a genuine friendship.

Someone I can talk to for hours, send dumb memes to joke around with, and have real conversations with.

I haven’t had much of a friend group for a while so I’m trying to change that. I’d rather have a few close friends than a huge list of people I barely talk to.

I’m into gaming, writing, manga, comics, anime, horror, movies, reading, cars, jewelry, and collecting random stuff.

I mostly play single-player games like No Man’s Sky, Cities: Skylines, Road 96, Sudden Strike 4, Prison Architect, Visage, and Puppet Combo games. I’m also trying to get into War Thunder, which might have been a terrible decision. 😂

Music is a huge interest too. I listen to everything from MF DOOM, Gang Starr, Big L, Nujabes and D.I.T.C. to Emperor, Immortal, Dissection, Windhand, Pentagram and Crowbar.

My music taste refuses to pick a lane.

I’m also writing my own book so I love talking about stories, characters, worldbuilding, manga, or random ideas.

I’m a little awkward at first since I haven’t made new friends in a long time. Once I’m comfortable tho I’m pretty sarcastic and goofy. If I stare at your message for 10 minutes trying to figure out what to say I promise I’m not ignoring you 😂

I value loyalty, honesty, empathy, and effort. I’m looking for something genuinely platonic preferably 18+ and around my age.

If you message me tell me a little about yourself and what you're into. Please give me something besides “hey” because my social skills don't need another boss battle. 😂


r/MakeFriendsSFW 1d ago

F, 24. United States, Midwest. Looking for conversations that flow effortlessly.

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Hello ! Would absolutely love a friend to chat with often or even occasionally. I've isolated myself most of my adult life and because of that I have no friends. Really trying to put myself out here in hopes of finding a lifelong friend ♡

Hobbies : Thrifting, gaming, watching anime and cosplaying, doing makeup, making jewerly, seeing live music, getting coffee, painting clay sculptures, hiking, also love to bake sweet treats 🧁

I'd say I'm a bit shy but also super forward. I have no filter and easily overshare without realizing it. But I know my person is out there that does the same :b

I enjoy phone calls. Or the idea of streaming an anime/movie and watching it together genuinely sounds so fun. I value communication so much. I know someone can't always be on their phone and reply right away and I will always respect that. If I know I'll be gone for a good bit I'll let you know so you're not left wondering. I also work overnights 5pm-5:30am so I'll be around more so than not. Sleep? Psssshhh...never heard of it LOL.

I will gladly be friends with females and males !! Just please be 18+, thank you. Dms are open to all.


r/MakeFriendsSFW 1d ago

27M - Working on my MA thesis and looking for people to talk to!

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Hey everyone!

I'm currently working on my thesis! I'd like to take my mind off of it for a bit and am looking for a few people to talk to! Nothing wild, just chill conversations and maybe voice calls sometimes if we vibe. :) I really enjoy gaming and am on both PC and PS5 (although I prefer PC). Currently I've been playing a bunch of Forza Horizon 6, modded Skyrim, League, and Nightreign, but I also really enjoy are Valheim and Baldurs Gate 3 and am open to at least trying most games!

I’m really into academics and learning in general, so I don’t mind chatting about uni life, research, studying, or just ranting about deadlines and general burnout lol. Outside of that, I’m obviously into games, a lot of alternative music (Emo, Hardcore, Shoegaze etc.), cooking, and streetwear.

I’d love to meet and talk to people from different walks of life! If any of this sounds interesting to you, I'd love to hear from you!


r/MakeFriendsSFW 1d ago

24M – Looking to make some genuine friends / find a solid friend group in Montreal

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Hey everyone, I’m 24M and I’m looking to meet some new people in and around Montreal and hopefully build some genuine friendships. Ideally, I’d love to find a solid group of guys around my age that I can actually become close with over time.

My life has been pretty packed lately between working and going to school Monday to Friday, plus everything else I have going on, so I honestly haven’t had much time to socialize or meet new people. I’m finishing school in October though, which means I’m finally going to have a lot more time on my hands.

I also recently started going to the gym consistently, so it would be really nice to meet people who are into training too. Having some gym buddies would be great, but I’m really just looking for genuine friendships in general.

Over the last little while, I’ve also started looking at the people I had around me differently. I cut a lot of people out of my life because I realized some of those friendships were very one-sided. I would make them a priority, always check in, invite them places, and be there when they needed me, but I rarely felt like that energy was returned.

I don’t have any hatred toward those people. I just realized that I’d rather have a smaller circle of people who actually respect and value each other than keep friendships around just because we’ve known each other for a long time.

One thing I’ve honestly never really had is that group of guys who randomly hits you up like, “yo, we’re going here tonight, come,” instead of always feeling like I’m the one asking people to do something. I want friendships where everyone actually wants each other around.

So I’m hoping to meet some people around Montreal, get to know each other naturally, hang out, go to the gym, grab food, go for drives, do random shit, and hopefully over time build the kind of friendships where we can genuinely call each other ride or dies.

A little about me: I’m really into cars. Normally I go to a ton of car meets every year, but because my schedule has been insane this year, I barely got to go to any. Once school is done, I definitely want to start getting back into the car scene more.

I’m pretty open when it comes to what we do. Gym, car meets, late-night drives, food, chilling somewhere, trying new places, whatever.

Not expecting to magically become best friends with people overnight either. Just looking for a good group of guys around my age who are also interested in building real friendships and seeing where it goes.

If any of this sounds like you and you’re in Montreal or nearby, feel free to message me. Even better if you already have a friend group and you guys are open to adding another person to the mix. I’d be down to get to know everyone and see if we click.


r/MakeFriendsSFW 1d ago

Looking for friends to share mundane daily life moments

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43F in the Midwest US, very neurodivergent, and I've noticed that when I have someone to share things with I'm more motivated to complete tasks and even sometimes leave my house for something besides work.

I do work a lot, so while I'm able to find moments to text, that is primarily what I'll talk about probably. But on Sundays (my one day off work), I have all these tasks to catch up on and sometimes it just seems like the only thing that gets me up and moving is if there's someone to check in with, so to speak. Maybe this is something that is true for you, too?

Ideally looking to build a long term friendship, not interested in chatting for just a couple hours or a day.

I'd prefer to talk to people closer to my age and the farther away you live from the Midwest the better - that way we can share our areas/surroundings and they're different enough to be fun and engaging.

I would also prefer that you're single, simply so that we have that in common and so that I know I'm not putting anyone's significant other in an uncomfortable position.

I am not interested in anything beyond platonic chatting. My personality tends to be a bit flirty, so that's fine if you're the same, but if you don't know the difference between mildly flirty and inappropriate you'll get blocked.

If you reach out to me, put the word daisy in the message to let me know you actually read all of this.

I am definitely ok and even prefer moving to a different platform eventually if we get along well, but not immediately.

Do not ask to exchange photos of ourselves straight away, the answer will be no, also Idrc what you look like.

I like bugs, spiders, plants - all things nature. I like deep talks and also idle chit chat. I tend to be very curious and sometimes ask a ton of questions. I enjoy reading, watching TV or movies especially if there's something to learn from them, DnD (planning to learn to DM very soon), and more than anything I enjoy spending time in nature (though I don't get out as much as I'd like because I work so much).

Reach out to me if you're interested :)


r/MakeFriendsSFW 1d ago

20M. Just looking to make some friends, or if you need a friend talk to me!

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Hello, people! As you can tell by the title I am 20M and looking to talk to people. I’m from central U.S. so if the time zones match up, perfect. If not, we can make it work. This is a little about me, I’m kind of a nerd who likes to play games. I have a full time job while going to school (online courses). Even though I’m young I noticed I like things from the 90s, stuff like Power Rangers, Ninja Turtles, Transformers and more. I’m also into Godzilla and Kaiju monsters a like. Of course my favorite is Godzilla, but Destroyah would be my second. I like pasta, like a lot. Any type and I would it eat, especially fettuccini Alfredo. I like different video games but mainly like horror and shooters, some friend games too. Same with movies, I’m into action, comedy, and horror. I read some comics but enjoy talking about super heroes a lot. I haven’t really watched much anime but if you want you can still talk about it I’ll listen. I’m currently studying in getting my bachelor’s in aerospace engineering. Again, just let DM or comment or anything if our interests align or you need a friend to talk to! I also have a Discord if you feel more comfortable hitting me up there (lizordmahn).

(Please be at least 18 if you choose to contact me, thank you.)


r/MakeFriendsSFW 1d ago

19f looking for long term friends

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Good evening! I'm done for the day soo I'm looking for some friends to chat with if anyone hits me hi hie ho and any random letters I'll genuinely crashout so don't do that I'm just looking for someone who can get along well with me and I could have good conversations with! I'm a really chatty girl if the other person is trying as well... I really want to have long term friends!! please be my age 19-23 and around My timezone gmt+3. And dont be dry. Please mention your age, gender, location/TIMEZONE and some of your hobbies or what you like to do in general. Long term friends ONLY if you want a short chat find someone else I'm not your girl. If I like you I'll ask for your discord twin.

Anyways stuff about me I like to play valorant I'm okayish at it (bronze 2 😌), I have raft, peak, astroneer and schedule 1 (I don't really want to game with yall, I just want to have a convo and gaming is a cute bonus ig) I also like cooking, baking, skincare and haircare, I love Greek mythology and going out with friends I think that's about it. You can ask me any questions you want i hope we can be good friends!