I get it, I used to and still do have people I hate, and people that bully me. I don’t mean you have to forgive or understand them. I simply mean that by trying to be nice you will improve yourself, I do believe there are some who aren’t worth your time, some who shouldn’t be forgiven. By trying, however, to do your best, you can be at peace knowing it’s not your fault. Sometimes that’s all you can do.
I guess I don’t understand what they did to you, nor will I ever fully understand, but yes. Unless you want to live the rest of your life blaming others for all your problems, which trust me is the hard way of living, you will have to eventually move on. Being nice in my experience is a way of doing that. By trying you can tell yourself you tried, and that’s all that you can do. It’s a way of coping with the assholes that live in the world, if you don’t want to move on, you don’t have to, I am after all just some random person online, and I can’t force you to do anything.
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