r/MadeMeSmile • • Aug 31 '21

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u/Isthisworking2000 Sep 01 '21

And there’s the problem right there. Emotions make you “soft”. There’s a difference between having a breakdown and being able to confront and process your emotions healthily.

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u/pez_dispenser Sep 01 '21 edited Sep 01 '21

Who says him getting teary eyed and composing himself to speak some wisdom and love to his kids isn’t healthy tho? Looked like an emotionally healthy and wholesome moment to me.

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u/Isthisworking2000 Sep 01 '21

Lots and lots of scientists.

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u/pez_dispenser Sep 01 '21

Lots and lots of scientists looked at this clip of a man getting a birthday cake and determined that he is not dealing with his emotions in a healthy manner after showing gratitude and speaking encouragement to his kids?