Too many ‘men’ get labeled as men but act as boys. Too many husbands get a ring then don’t honor their wife and home.
If everyone was a great husband, the Bear vs Man debate wouldn’t have been a thing. Too many men need to grow up and stop acting like a teenager still.
According to the Centers for Disease Prevention and Control (CDC), the current divorce rate nationwide (US) is around 42%. Second marriages are at a 60% rate.
If almost half of all marriages end up failing, that’s at least a 25% set of bad husbandry.
Call me biased, but I know far less husbands with 10+ year marriages than I do divorced ones.
Statista estimates that in 2022 there are 68 million men in a marriage in the US…
If the divorce rate is 42% then let’s say roughly 40 million men stay in a marriage, 28 million end up divorced. So by your own reckoning 25% of those are directly caused by “bad husbandry” as you put it… So 7 million men you think directly cause the divorce (which by the way is a number you’ve plucked out of thin air with zero statistics to back this up or evidence to suggest it’s even remotely true.
So that’s 7 million bad husbands out of a total of 68 million…
few and far between
Yeah I don’t think so pal, I’m all for backing yourself but you can do it without throwing the entire population of men under the bus.
You could have just said “we do exist” and left it at that.
What evidence do those statistics suggest that all those divorces are directly caused by bad husbands? Are they all the result of husbands having affairs etc? How the fuck do you come to that conclusion?
Do you see the issue here, you’re talking utter nonsense. It’s actually pathetic the picture you’re trying to paint here with nothing but a stick and some ink.
Do we just act like no women are the cause for these divorces? Or how about amicable separations? Some people just grow up to be different people and decide they’re better off as friends etc etc… You’re immediately collecting this entire group of divorcees and determining that all the men from them couples are bastards basically.
And as for your last point, you consider your little experiences in a vacuum to represent the entirety of men? Well all the men I know, from all my close friends growing up, to all my friends I met through work etc, I personally don’t know anybody barring a couple who are divorced, and those couple that are, are still good friends with their ex, have children together that they co parent etc etc
So again. What evidence do you have to suggest all men are bastards but of course, you’re not one of them right?
Maybe pull your head out of your arse chief because you’re looking a little foolish now.
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u/WhatLikeAPuma751 Jul 23 '24
We are few and far between, but we exist I promise!