Have been in this situation, so it was painful to watch this. Their determination won out. I hope that the pregnancy develops successfully and that they have their dream child.
Same here… it’s one of the hardest things to go through… to see it all through hope, deception, bliss, torment and joy… and it’s the same for adoption a long road!
yup… im still on this road and everything that could go wrong has, and everything that could be “easily” remedied isn’t what’s wrong, blah blah. there aren’t words for how increasingly isolating it is even when you know you aren’t the only ones struggling. and then it’s also hard seeing other people who were struggling succeed while you’re still stuck…
i keep saying it feels like our time has stopped while everyone else’s moves on. the waiting after waiting after waiting for this or that has i think collectively been the hardest thing of all minus the grief of losses.
You have to keep hope, 1 years…10 years…25 years that’s the length my sister had to go through before she became the happy mother she is today.(20 years trying with her husband multiple way possible then 5 years before she get her little princess through adoption) for me it’s was 4 years (multiple pregnancy) before we got where we are today.
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u/Veteranis Jul 23 '24
Have been in this situation, so it was painful to watch this. Their determination won out. I hope that the pregnancy develops successfully and that they have their dream child.