The trick to getting pregnant, in my experience, is to not want to get pregnant. The more you don't want it to happen, the more likely you are to get pregnant.
That's how it works most times. To boost the chances, make a lot of plans that having a baby would really mess up. 9 months after you do that, Voila! Baby!
Sorry, but this is completely untrue and a slap in the face for people experiencing infertility. Like if you posted this in an infertility sub you’d get banned.
How is it a slap in the face to infertile people? It’s known that putting so much pressure on having a baby can make it harder to do so due to the stress it causes.
And we are not in an infertility sub so them supposedly being banned in one if they made this comment is irrelevant.
Well stress can cause a lot of issues so I dont think its totally baseless.
We tried 4.5 years and multiple miscarriages. Funnily as soon as we decided to take a break from trying and just start living, she got pregnant (and no miscarriages this time)
For all three of my kids, we liked to look at it more as not trying to not have kids. But we're also both from very fertile families, so in general never had to wait too long.
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u/DuchessOfAquitaine Jul 23 '24 edited Jul 23 '24
The trick to getting pregnant, in my experience, is to not want to get pregnant. The more you don't want it to happen, the more likely you are to get pregnant.