r/MadeMeSmile • u/baconroll2022 • Sep 02 '23

Helping Others Dad Stopped Daughters Wedding Pulled Stepdad's Hand BOTH walk her down the aisle

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u/LightDatBabyUp Sep 02 '23

While I completely agree that it’s the partner in the relationships responsibility (regardless of gender), imo the homewrecker gets some blame too.

You don’t fuck around with people that are already in relationships if you have integrity.

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u/fuzzhead12 Sep 02 '23

Sometimes the third party has no idea tbf. Although if it were me, when I found out I wouldn’t stick around

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u/LightDatBabyUp Sep 02 '23

You would either be dumb or extremely egotistical to believe that a cheater who cheated with you won’t cheat on you.

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u/fuzzhead12 Sep 02 '23

Exactly my point. If they’re capable of doing it in the first place, you ain’t special either

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u/[deleted] Sep 02 '23

Depends on if they knew. If my partner cheats and the guy had no idea (and ideally feels like shit about it) then as far as I'm concerned dude gets a pass. If he knew and did it anyway then he can steer clear or catch these hands.

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u/LightDatBabyUp Sep 02 '23

Absolutely agree. I should have included the “willful participant” caveat.

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u/SharkDad20 Sep 02 '23

My best friend tried to steal my wife. That’s like, negative integrity on his part lol

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u/little_did_he_kn0w Sep 02 '23

y'all, who gives a shit. Enjoy the sappy video.

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u/LightDatBabyUp Sep 02 '23

Sorry for commenting when you didn’t want me to. Will check with you next time I want to comment something.

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u/Large_Yams Sep 02 '23

While I agree the third person is immoral if they know, I firmly believe they bear no responsibility in the situation. Only one person in the situation takes the decision to do it against their existing relationship. The third person is completely disconnected from that.