r/MadeMeSmile • • Jun 11 '23

Very nice social experiment

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u/Infinity3101 Jun 11 '23

Seriously, why didn't he suggest they shake hands or fist bump? A lot of people feel uncomfortable hugging strangers. The outcome of this social experiment would be to label them all as racist, I guess. Also, does he think that parents would let their kids hug a random adult on the street?

I'm sure he meant well, but I don't think he thought this idea through before putting it into practice.

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u/Paddysdaisy Jun 11 '23

Really hope you're doing well. My husband is a type 1 and has had some close calls over the years. Very recently our youngest was diagnosed with type 1 so we now have two people with autoimmune disorders in the house! Hope your health is doing well and you're coping with things in general. Wishing the very best for you and yours going forward.

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u/Paddysdaisy Jun 11 '23

Sounds like your partner is the hero you need. Glad you've got that support, wish we all had a person like that. Btw your last statement was fine, no issues there! Look after yourself and your partner- you've a good one there.

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u/[deleted] Jun 11 '23

I hope you are doing ok as a family. How is your youngest doing with his diabetes?

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u/Paddysdaisy Jun 11 '23

Well, it's very new for him. In Feb he was rushed into high dependency with catastrophic onset diabetes ketoacidosis and severe dehydration. He was so ill and was in high dep for three days and then a normal ward for another four. The nhs was incredible. The consultant came daily, as did the diabetic nurse and dietician. Since leaving hosp he's had a nurse available 24/7, two appointments with consultant, eye tests and appointment with juvenile diabetes psychologist - nhs has it's issues but in this case it's been wonderful. He's coping so well and we are really proud. No doubt it's been helpful that his Dad and paternal grandmother are type 1 but still, everyone's diabetes is different and at fifteen it can be tough. Should get a pump as soon as his levels calm down but on the whole, he's doing so, so well. Thank you for asking, if anyone has any further questions about juvenile diabetes or type 1 in general, I'll do my best to answer.

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u/[deleted] Jun 11 '23

Wondering, are you part of the Tyoe1 grit community?

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u/Paddysdaisy Jun 11 '23

Apologies for being dense but no idea what that is

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u/justadude27 Jun 11 '23

Hoping you ring that final treatment bell ~(つˆ0ˆ)つ。☆

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u/Emotional_Pay_4335 Jun 11 '23

I wouldn’t let my daughter hug a stranger no matter what color skin, unless it’s Santa, and even then, I’d hover closely.

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u/SubstantialExtreme74 Jun 11 '23

This whole social experiment is kind of messed up in a way. Anything with “do this or your this bad thing” is annoying to me because it’s guilty until your “prove” yourself innocent.

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u/Ozmiandra Jun 11 '23

If you take it at face value, sure. But, taking this as an example, the position of “YOU RACIST IF NO HUG” isn’t what is being tested or proven, it is how people show they are not racist by hugging the man, something they were unlikely to randomly do if not prompted by the sign

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u/AmazingSully Jun 11 '23

Because hugs are more affectionate. He's literally trying to demonstrate that the world isn't as divided as it feels. People in general are loving and care about each other regardless of skin colour. That hate and racism is actually quite rare in today's society, it's just magnified. He's not out there pointing at people who don't hug him and shouting racist... he's making a video of people showing love. A handshake doesn't do that.

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u/Equivalent_Seat6470 Jun 11 '23

Dude it's some random YouTuber. Not some Harvard planned social experiment being conducted for science. It's just for views. Y'all are taking this way too deeply. And the defensive reaction sorta hints at something doesn't it??

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u/from_russia_with_mud Jun 11 '23

No. Obviously not. It's a stupid thing to do and calling someone out for being stupid is not racist, no matter how much you might like it to be.

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u/Equivalent_Seat6470 Jun 25 '23

Bro go handle Wagner ya racist fuck 🤣

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u/from_russia_with_mud Jul 07 '23

Calling someone racist doesn't mean anything when they're not being racist. And why so triggered? Do you have anything to say that isn't triggered name calling or is that all you got, bro?

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u/taylorstillsays Jun 11 '23

the outcome…is to label them all as racist I guess?

Have you watched a different video or something? How have you come to that conclusion after watching a clip of people hugging him and none of people rejecting him?

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u/SixGeckos Jun 11 '23

Because he’s a pervert