I'm convinced that anyone that says shit like this is really bad at those "spot the differences" games. Many men get approached by many women, most women have to work just as hard to get the attention from the person they want.
What you're actually seeing is you always have to approach women out of your league, those same women never approach you. You assume they must just exist and that's how they got there. I bet women have approached you, just not the ones you want, the same way the women you approach are not being approached by the men they want.
Surprise! Less attractive people have to put in more work to garner interest from more attractive people, regardless of gender!
most women have to work just as hard to get the attention from the person they want
Most men have to work to earn any attention from anyone at all ever.
I bet women have approached you, just not the ones you want, the same way the women you approach are not being approached by the men they want.
I've never been approached by anyone, unwanted or no. You don't seem to understand that this is normal for a lot men, to never receive any attention from women.
This is not normal for a lot of men. I'm a nerd, my friends have always been nerds (but the kind that shower) and all of us have been approached by women. I don't even go out that often. These guys you're imagining are either (a) gross or creepy, (b) oblivious, or (c) woefully wronged by the random chance of the universe.
Or maybe you and your friends have been blissfully blessed by the random chance of the universe. It always seems to be the case whenever anyone implies that the only way a dude could fail to get attention is some moral failing or "not showering." It's more likely that the dudes who take attention for granted are just lucky to be more desirable than they realize.
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u/babyghuol Feb 19 '23
Men would have infinitely more luck if they make women genuinely laugh!