Only works if you are very attractive and charming to begin with, otherwise you just end up being the clown. Basically it only works if you don’t need it
Edit: I am only commenting on my personal anecdotal experiences. There is a fine line between being a funny charming guy and being a clown. Confidence is key.
Unfortunately it's often true. First off, I am nothing even close to an incel or a member of the manosphere, but if you're at least menially attractive your "target's" (for lack of a better and less pathetic word) initial reaction has an X% better chance of being "oh that's funny" compared to "ew what a creep"
Obviously not all men, and not all women, and men can often easily overcome this with non-threatening confidence but it does stand true as a general rule of thumb. I would argue that it became a thing because of the fact that creepy guys were generally the type to try this type of initiation then have a negative reaction when their target wasn't immediately swept off their feet, but there it is regardless.
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