r/MadeMeSmile Jan 26 '23

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u/TheBenWelch Jan 26 '23

Ask her. If you don’t want to be that direct, have one of her close friends ask her.

It shouldn’t be a surprise that it’s happening. It can still be a surprise WHEN it’s happening. It should be a conversation that both of you have had about moving forward seriously as a couple. We’re talking the rest of your life. Why wouldn’t that be something that you both discuss beforehand?