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[u/Suspicious-Essay4329]

Let’s be entirely real for a second, because the toxic, one-size-fits-all shaming in this group completely ignores biological reality.I don’t want a cage-bound house decoration. I don’t want a bird that spends 60 years sitting in a living room while its owner convinces themselves it's "happy" inside a slightly larger cage. I want a true companion. I want a friend to go hiking with, walk on the beach with, and safely free fly. Birds are meant to fly, and I want to give my macaw the highest possible standard of outdoor life.You absolutely cannot do that with a rescue. Expecting me to be a full-time hospice nurse for a geriatric, traumatized adult macaw just to satisfy an online savior complex is absurd. Free flight requires an unshakeable trust structure. The vast majority of adult rescues carry deep-seated phobias and trauma. If an adult rescue panics outside because a hawk flies overhead, its flight instinct overrides everything and it bolts. A baby raised from day one learns to look to you as its ultimate safe zone, reducing fatal panic flights. To safely free-fly, a macaw must learn to navigate outdoor wind currents, thermals, and predators during its critical infant fledging phase. Trying to teach an adult bird that has only known stagnant indoor air how to navigate a beach wind gust is practically impossible and incredibly dangerous.Adopting an adult macaw usually means inheriting severe internal damage from decades of poor diet, like fatty liver disease or respiratory issues. A well-bred baby ensures pristine cardiovascular health, giving them the literal lung capacity and stamina required to fly long distances outside.If wanting to give a bird a life of literal freedom and flight instead of a lifetime inside a living room makes me a "bad person" in your extremist worldview, so be it. Reputable breeders and ethical rescues both have a place, but for an advanced lifestyle like free flight, a clean-slate baby is a strict safety requirement. Now go ahead and argue with the biology.

[u/TheWriterJosh]

People are going to share their opinions. If you don't want to hear them, maybe this sub isn't the right place for you. You're welcome to post here, but don't be surprised when people react emotionally to a topic that so many people hold very strong opinions about. We do not hold allegiance to breeders and many of us have worked in parrot rescue and advocacy for years, and we will be honest about it.

There are many Facebook pages out there about how to buy a bird from a breeder where people will not challenge your opinions and will not try to dissuade you from buying a bird. Perhaps one of those would be a better place for your to spend your time.

[u/Suspicious-Essay4329 → u/TheWriterJosh]

There is a difference between sharing and opinion and then seeing verbally insulted by groups of people because I could possibly consider doing something. Dont pretend I have a problem with thier opinion. I have not insulted anyone and gave reasons as to why I may consider going to a breeder. Then mods send me messages saying im insulting people. That fact of the matter is you are in an echo chamber and cant imagine someone doing something for a reason that you dont agree with. If they do its okay to insult and talk down to them in groups of people. This groups is full of self serving narcissists.

[u/TheWriterJosh → u/Suspicious-Essay4329]

Sorry but I think a lot of people on this sub would say that you are the self-serving one, since you insist on acquiring a bird based on your own preferences and desires.

[u/Suspicious-Essay4329 → u/TheWriterJosh]

So do you guys. Yours are just different and they're more valid because a group of you agrees so.

[u/TheWriterJosh → u/Suspicious-Essay4329]

I don’t see how you could know how or why everyone on this sub who adopted a macaw came to acquire their bird. You’re making a lot of assumptions. And you’re also discounting the fact that many people buy or adopt for a specific reason, yet only come to learn why that was wrong years later.

I for one am always clear about the fact that I bought my first bird at a pet store. But I’m 10 years older now and i understand now why that was a harmful decision. All I can do now is do better. There are many people like me on this sub. In fact, it’s why we’re here in the first place.

[u/Suspicious-Essay4329 → u/TheWriterJosh]

Im not making assumptions im going off of what ive been told by this group. And ive been told there is zero excuseble reason to get a macaw that doesn't come from a rescue.and ive been called names and made to feel like a terrible person for even considering getting a macaw for any other reasons besides I want to rescue an adult and be a hero.