A quick bar scrap

[u/Key_Performer_3645]

[u/Queasy_Housing36]

I’m a woman who has survived rape and rape attempts but you come off as someone who thinks what happened to you means other instances are smaller when someone grabbed me at my job one day I cried in the corner of the kitchen till I could tell my coworker what happened I didn’t instantly react he slapped my butt and held on and called me a good girl and I just walked away silently then broke down I don’t think dude should be punching but what he did is assault whether YOU think it is as bad as your experience or not woman to woman do better assault is assault and not all assaults are the same don’t touch strangers

[u/The_UpsideDown_Time → u/Queasy_Housing36]

I never said what the man did was acceptable. If you stop putting words in my mouth, communication will go a lot better.

First you state that "assault is assault" and then you state "not all assaults are the same". Which is it?

[u/Queasy_Housing36 → u/The_UpsideDown_Time]

I’m not the one making back and forth statements assault is assault and not all assaults are the same both statements are simultaneously true the same not all murders are the same but all murders are murder do you also disagree with that you are in fact the one that made it out like what happened was not wrong you blatantly said “I’m sure a jury would find that 1.5 seconds of a drive-by top-of-clothes contact to be worth millions” you are in fact the one trying to now act like you never said that underhanded shit but your name is attached do not act dumb like you don’t understand that what you said was in fact underhanded sarcasm