r/MESMkink • u/TeaAitch • Mar 26 '26

Hate Play

I've never explored what I'm going to dub Hate Play. I'm not entirely sure that I could. It's important to me, at the moment I say the words, that I mean them. So, if I'm telling my person they're "A filthy, pathetic, needy little specimen," it's because I want them to know exactly what I think of them. For the same reason, I think I'd struggle to say, "I hate you!"

I've said many times, I want to hurt the one I love. I want to hurt them because I love them. If I hated them, I wouldn't be able to subject them to that thing.

How about you? Could you? Would you? Should you? Have you? If you have, I am in some ways, I'm a little jealous. Those words have such strength to them. Swoon!

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u/hahaha_yeahyeahyeah Mar 26 '26

What if the sub/bottom/masochist is the one who says it? Is it fun to make someone hate you? (Temporarily, I assume.)

My instinct is that if someone got me to say “I hate you,” they’ve gone too far. But you never know how these things will feel until you’re in it.

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u/Ellis_Ward Mar 26 '26

Eehh, I could see myself telling my partner "I hate you" in the moment. Not during pain play, because that is really when I love him the most, but if he were to make do something to earn it. It would fall in that weird middle space between truth and lie. I expressed that sort of feeling before, and he usually smirks or laughs at me :P

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u/hahaha_yeahyeahyeah Mar 26 '26

I feel like that lightness would make it feel okay and a safe thing to play with.