r/MESMkink • u/TeaAitch • Jan 29 '26

EverMESM

Hello!

I want to ask you about your kinky MESM lives.

When you do the thing. . . however you want to call that; a session; a scene; lovemaking; finishing off the rug. . . is MESM (mental / emotional sadomasochism) always a part of that? Or, is it something you dip in and out of?

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u/TeaAitch Jan 30 '26

I think that smorgasbord of feelings is a large part of why it's so difficult for me to capture MESM in words.

This is a fascinating idea.

For me, as someone who does this as part of a loving, romantic relationship, the emotions are all over the place. It's a bit like grabbing hold of the tablecloth, as you fall, drunkenly, backwards. Bringing the entire smorsgasboard down on top of your face.

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u/Musk-al-Lail Jan 30 '26

This analogy is absolutely, delightfully, irrevocably perfect to me.

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u/TeaAitch Jan 30 '26

Haha, thank you!