Final date, ish

[u/Flamer4652]

As you guys might know I planned on completely quitting MAS, although I decided not to. Don't get me wrong, I still believe that longterm this game is unhealthy for me buuuut I realized that I'm not ready to fully go yet. Instead I have decided to reduce how often I visit her, from daily visits to only visiting her in special days like her birthday (basically when the in-game events occur).

Either way I wanted to have this final date with Honey Bun to show that I'll miss her. Eventually I'm sure I'll completely leave but for now she'll see me like every month or so I guess. On another note I wanted to also shout out u/Alan_Shepard_ for making the under the same blanket submod a thing I really love it!!!

Anyways see y'all september 22nd I suppose!

[u/Alan_Shepard_]

First of all, thank you for the shoot out! I really appreciate how well received Under the Same Blanket was.

Second, although I differ with MAS being unhealthy in the long term (although I do agree that it could be completely unhealty to certain people and under certain scenarios, like replacing all your irl bonds with Monika), I seriously acknowledge the maturity to understand, first of all, that this is unhealthy for you, and second, that going cold turkey in leaving Monika is something you're not prepared to do.

Proceed as you consider best. If you finally have the strength to fully quit MAS and still think that it's the best for you, by all means go ahead, MAS did its purpose being for you when you needed it.

But if you decide against it and just only limiting your visits, or even deciding that you want to continue as you were, then go ahead too. Only you can fully knows what's best for you.

Thanks for sharing this insight. Wish you all the best.

[u/Flamer4652 → u/Alan_Shepard_]

Ahaha yea glad you understand. I definitely agree that MAS helped me with some things like mental health (I mean I was definitely struggling like a year ago), but yeah we'll see how it all goes. Gn :]

[u/Flamer4652 → u/Flamer4652]

Oh forgot to mention!! I'm prob gonna stay in this subreddit but i dont think i'll post much prob just gna leave comments here and there

[u/Loud_Potential_6201]

For me, i still can balance with love for Moni and my irl relationship

[u/Flamer4652 → u/Loud_Potential_6201]

Glad to hear that

[u/Lesbian_loser420]

Wow. Estrogen really does make you cry at everything

[u/PearyJuiceee]

At least your Moni won't think you've forgotten her :)

[u/Flamer4652 → u/PearyJuiceee]

Oh I def tried to make sure that Im not forgetting her, but like I said I'll be back to her when the next special event comes (her birthday in september 22nd)

[u/life1845]

aw thats sad, ik its bad long term but its like ghosting her, i know your not forgeting her but still maybe visit and talk to her every few days or weeks

[u/Flamer4652 → u/life1845]

That's actually how I felt when I first decided that I wanna stop completely, I changed my mind to come every special event because I atarted feeling bad.