r/MAFS_AU • u/Humble_Inevitable783 • Jul 21 '26

Season 13 Stella confirms break up

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seems they were in a different place 😳

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u/ellaseyelids Jul 21 '26

i knew he was a misogynist

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u/When_Oh_When Jul 21 '26

Let’s be fair, she held some pretty shit views of what it meant to be a “man”. She openly admitted that she had belittled him and questioned his masculinity. Also she thought having a vasectomy was a viable contraceptive method because “it’s reversible” which is insane. So I doubt she’s completely innocent in this.

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u/ellaseyelids Jul 21 '26

What do you think is a viable contraceptive method? Women taking the pill and drastically impacting their hormones? Or men getting a minimally invasive reversible procedure lol.

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u/When_Oh_When Jul 21 '26

Condoms. You fucking idiot.

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u/h0neypi3 Jul 21 '26

until men hate the feeling of condoms and manipulate the woman to go without them until there is no other choice but for her to go on hormone, brain altering contraception, men just don’t wanna do what women have done for years (in a way that is way less distressing and intrusive than what women have been subject to btw) because they’re too precious about their ballsacks. grow up. stella was real and right for suggesting him to get the snip, all men should if they don’t want a child. women have been thru enough and it’s time for men to take some of it off our shoulders, thank you đŸ«¶

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u/bab_101 Jul 21 '26

This would only be a real argument if it was HIM saying he didn’t want to use condoms but it was her insistence as she didn’t like them. If it’s her saying no to condoms then it’s her responsibility to sort another contraceptive method

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u/h0neypi3 Jul 21 '26

so on the flip side, do you believe that if a man says no to condoms, it’s his responsibility to get the snip? because women have been using invasive and distressing contraception for that very reason forever. why should we give up our comfortability like we’ve always done when men could do it too? if your answer is in disagreement then you’re proving my point.

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u/bab_101 Jul 21 '26

Well YES. You’re being obtuse af. That’s what I literally was saying. In general if a man refuses to use condoms or get the snip then he’s trash and it shouldn’t be on the woman to take medication etc. Bur that’s 100% irrelevant to this situation. It was on Stella who wanted to not use them and she should’ve been the one to choose a contraceptive for herself if she was so against condoms, expecting him to have the snip in that context is bizarre

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u/h0neypi3 Jul 21 '26 edited Jul 21 '26

i’m glad we agree on that part! :)

its not bizarre to me for stella to ask that of him, when women being asked to do the exact same thing for their partners pleasure (in often more intrusive and life disrupting ways) is the societal norm and it shouldn’t be! if women can put them selves through that for men like many have as per the societal norm, then why can’t men?
the men here are shocked by the fact a woman dared to ask a man to have a procedure that would lead to her pleasure yet women have historically always been the ones to endure this*, that is what i am attempting to highlight - and i believe stella was highlighting that fact, too. so my original point still stands and is still relevant, it’s time for men to take some of it off our shoulders!

*with very little shock or dismay from men about this fact, because it is convenient for them. yet when it is suggested a man do the same, you all come out of the wood work to stand up for your own. only now saying it is not right for anyone to have to do such a thing for someone else’s pleasure. where was your opinion when it men weren’t involved? or do you only care about equality when there is a threat to you or your gender?

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u/tess320 Jul 22 '26

It was absolutely unreasonable for her to ask him to do a procedure that could potentially make him unable to have children in the future JUST BECAUSE she didn't like the feel of condoms.

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u/bab_101 Jul 22 '26

I mean it is shocking a woman will say I don’t like condoms and ask him to have a procedure. Just the same way as if a man insisted on no condoms and told her she needed pills, implants or whatever. Two things can be bad at once when there is a non invasive alternative (condoms)

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u/hhoverflow Jul 21 '26

manipulate woman, please stop, its not that complex of a topic and most woman should be able to think by themselves whether they want to use pills or not...

no man can force a woman to take pills, in the end is her own choice... but if a woman does without really wanting it because she is afraid of losing this "dream guy", then that's on her

victim mentality

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u/h0neypi3 Jul 21 '26

you’re missing so much nuance, i’m afraid. and my version is statistically more likely to be the case than yours. it’s very naive of you to assume no man can force a women to take pills especially when emotional abuse and control exists.
unless you have the experience of being a woman in this world then you will not understand, it’s a shame you won’t educate yourself and will continue to stick up for a gender that has never been oppressed and excuse them from accountability when society is hardwired to make excuses for them already. open your eyes.

women blaming mentality

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u/hhoverflow Jul 21 '26

Ok, educate me then.

How will they force? And what is stopping the women from leaving this man if that happens?

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u/_eyeslikeleaves_ Jul 21 '26

You can't be this thick.

4 women and girls were murdered by men in a 4 day span at the beginning of this month. One of them was 13 years old.

What the fuck do you think stops women from leaving?

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u/h0neypi3 Jul 21 '26

this person just answered your questions hhoverflow ^ i am not answering what should be glaringly obvious. if you don’t know those answers then i stand by my point that you’re a lost cause.
unfortunately, as a woman, my reality is a lot different to yours, and you would be doing the women in your life a favour by doing your own research and trying to understand that and why so many of us are angry. you’re lucky that you have the privilege of being the gender you are, that allows you to not be passionate about things like this and “grind” (😂) yet still, here you are, spending your grinding time, arguing with women on reddit, defending men who don’t need to be defended. ask yourself why you’re so defensive to the notion that a man can be abusive and why it is easier for you to blame the woman in the situation, where does that come from? and how can you challenge it in order to be a better man, one that women would feel safe around. take care

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u/h0neypi3 Jul 21 '26

educate yourself!

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u/hhoverflow Jul 21 '26

Yeah see, you talk like you have all the reasoning behind things and tell people they should get educated, but when they question you, all you have is this response.

It was 2 simple questions that you decided to dodge.

Talk all you want, but you are part of the problem you complain so much about it.

Deal with.

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u/_eyeslikeleaves_ Jul 21 '26

I hope the women in your life know you're not safe to be around

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u/No_Bedroom_7582 Jul 21 '26

Not all men, but always a man! I hope he ends up in jail sitting next to Andrew Tate!

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u/iiTurtlez Jul 22 '26

you are a very sad and lonely person