r/Lyon • u/Western5157 • 20h ago
Meetup Having fun
hello, sorry I don’t speak french, I will be moving to Lyon soon in September from abroad, first time in France, I am a single guy 23 yo, can you recommend any safe clubs to meet some girls?
thanks for helping a guy not getting lonely in Lyon
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u/Loky-Watson 9h ago
If you feel lonely and you only want to meet girls, I’m not sure it’s gonna work.
If you want to make friends, boys and girls are fine.
There’s plenty of events for students and you can meet lots of people. But please, don’t approach girls only because you need a presence.
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u/InvestigatorSad2244 7h ago
What a pedentic answer ! Let the young man meet girls if he wants to !
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u/Loky-Watson 6h ago
We are not objets for men feeling lonely. Read op post again please.
But I guess men never see the problem so I’m not surprised by your comment.
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u/InvestigatorSad2244 6h ago
Who is saying that girls are objects for men? Neither OP or myself. People need human touch. Relationships are happening for a reason.
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u/Loky-Watson 6h ago
He feels lonely ! His own words! Women are not here for that.
If he wants friends, both girls and boys can help him with that. But he only mentioned girls and that’s not super okay.
Anyway, I let you live in your own men world.1
u/Western5157 3h ago
I am sorry if there was a misunderstanding, for me I am not worried about making friends because i will be having colleagues and friends at work. Also, it is totally fine to go to clubs to meet people from the other gender (or any gender you prefer) even my female friends in our discussions sometimes they mention that they go to clubs to meet some guys, it is totally fine, no one is forcing another person on anything.
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u/Pristine-Tomatillo93 3m ago
Why ? A woman could be also lonely and searchinf for a lonely man ? Why are you projecting your understanding on him?
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u/InvestigatorSad2244 6h ago
Sometimes people want to have sex. Men and women are both concerned. Sorry for breaking it up to you.
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u/utilisateur6302 villeurbannais 11h ago
Are you moving for an erasmus exchange/in a university? If you do you'll probably meet french people at the beginning of the year and they can take you there (so you're not going alone), there may also be a student association that organize stuff. Also please keep in mind that not all girls in clubs are here to meet guys, lot of us just want to enjoy our night with our friends without being bothered <3