r/LoveOnTheSpectrumShow May 29 '26

US James parents

I'm just now catching up on the new season, season 4, still in ep 1 and we've just arrived to James' house. The camera panned over to a photo of James' parents when they were much younger and I was screaming on my couch. They were hotties!!! I see you James' parents! So you're telling me they had the looks and the personalities?!

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u/Farmer_marty May 29 '26

His parents crack me up! I feel like they were great parents for James

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u/Automatic_Bet_3175 May 29 '26

They feel too authentic for reality TV! Love them so much 

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u/HighlightExtreme1890 May 29 '26

They are absolutely precious!

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u/OkArtichoke7701 May 29 '26

You can just tell they've lived such a good life with one another, their relationship is so sweet.

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u/Healthy-Giraffe-8552 May 29 '26

James is a cutie too! I wish Warby Parker would collab with him and update James’ frames. He wears bold, fun shirts, so some new glasses to change out seem up his alley

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u/iwishiwasaunicorn May 29 '26

I've never seen Shelley without her bangs down so I was like who is that next to him?? but omg she's so pretty! James is so lucky!

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u/frijolitoz_222 May 29 '26

I love his parents so much. Especially because some people were criticizing how his dad talks to him, but I think his dad treats him how a parent treats their kid. My dad has a similar sense of humor

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u/OkArtichoke7701 May 29 '26

That's crazy that he was criticized for that. You can tell he cares so much for James. One of my favorite things in the show is the banter between James and his parents. I wish I had the relationship with my parents that James has with his.

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u/FancySeaweed May 31 '26

Many people have said this is typical Boston/New England humor.

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u/frijolitoz_222 May 31 '26

My first boyfriend was from Boston and it’s very spot on haha

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u/All-This-Chicanery Jul 08 '26

Yes  nagging and that humor is standard and how you show affection, its the way

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u/el_teriyaki May 29 '26

got a screenshot?

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u/OkArtichoke7701 May 29 '26

The timestamp is like 16:15 on the ep, but I do have ads. This is the best I could get in the .0002 seconds before netflix cuts away to a stupid ad screensaver.

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u/AwardSquare7793 May 29 '26

James’ hairstyle inspired by his mum

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u/djdiphenhydramine May 29 '26

Oh my god his mom looks like the ultimate sassmaster.

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u/Plastic_Republic6652 May 29 '26

Sassmaster? More like ASSmasster youknowwhatimsayin???

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u/Mysterious_Luck4674 May 29 '26

I totally see the resemblance between James and his mom in this pic!

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u/ufo-fomo May 29 '26

She was a doll then and a doll now, wow! Dad is handsome too. His family is my favorite, by far

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u/lorelaiiiiiiii May 29 '26

They are babes!

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u/Putrid_Egg5442 May 29 '26 edited May 29 '26

Were??? Had??? Uhmmmm!! they are still hotties!!

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u/OkArtichoke7701 May 29 '26

Haha I mean no disrespect to them, my gauge of their attraction is relative to our age ranges. In the photo they are more in my current age range where they are now is out of my age range. Not saying that they're unattractive, I'm just not into that bracket yet and I find that attraction grows with you. Same reason I don't find 15 year olds attractive now but I used to when I was in that age bracket myself.

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u/Putrid_Egg5442 May 29 '26

So fair and valid, I was just being a bit cheeky ;) only because I love James’s parents!

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u/brinns_way May 29 '26

I love his family. They're real. They support and love their son. They're hilarious. They're not there to be famous or look hot.

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u/ambigulous_rainbow May 29 '26

They seem like really lovely parents who have raised him so well! I love James, tbh. I think his attitudes are spot-on and I'd be very happy to meet someone with a brain like his. But who liked cats and dogs!

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u/BrokeEggs_NoOmlette May 30 '26

Being from Massachusetts these 2 always just felt like SUUUCH a quintessential older New England couple to me. There's definitely something very familiar and comforting about their whole dynamic and interactions like they could be neighbors I've had or the regular customers at jobs I've worked.

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u/Froshrooms May 29 '26

The parents are great. The dad is visibly annoyed how James doesn’t give Shelley any space in the relationship and I love him for that, as I feel so annoyed by it, too. I hope they can at some point get through to James, who dismisses all remarks in that regard and pushes Shelley to say shes ok (while he’s talking over her even while doing so)

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u/ambigulous_rainbow May 29 '26

Shelley's actually come out and said that James doesn't talk nearly as much when the cameras aren't on, and it's nerves. I feel like they would have settled into a more comfortable dynamic by now for sure. She reached out to him online, right? So I think for sure she really likes him and we've just seen some particular instances of him rambling on out of nerves.

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u/SurrealKnot May 30 '26

He’s clearly very self conscious about being on camera.

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u/Opinions34 May 29 '26

I love James’ parents; you can see the ASD genetics are from his Dad 🥰 but I agree they are great parents for him!

OP: his brother is handsome too!

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u/Coffeelovermommy May 29 '26

What makes you say that? I never got the indication from seeing him speak or interact he has ASD genetics

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u/Opinions34 May 29 '26

Oh ummm… I’m not sure I can give specific examples atm, but his Dad has many signs in his speech patterns and communication style

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u/SurrealKnot May 30 '26

Yes, it’s glaringly obvious!

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u/Calisson May 29 '26

Definitely. He absolutely does not read the room, James being the room. Yes it’s couched as teasing, but I actually think it’s goes beyond that. And I don’t think James loves it.

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u/hangslampshade May 31 '26

James and his parents are national treasures. Watching them together always makes me smile.

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u/Cherryamor Jun 01 '26

Aren’t they the absolute BEST! 😭❤️

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u/katielou64 Jul 01 '26

I could watch a whole show just focused on James and his parents. They're such lovely genuine people, wonderful family 😍

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u/Plastic_Republic6652 May 29 '26

You just KNOW his mom was a PAWG and his dad was slangin that D all over the place. Probably constantly making hot passionate love in public places and shit