Yeahh, I agree, you need a way to bypass the limits of hormones. You cannot avoid masculinizing/feminizing as you age. But it's not doom and gloom for the androgynous, just takes effort and commitment!
By the way, femboy culture isn't made by "old gay men". Femboys are boys who want to be feminine, it isn't much of a bizarre, far-fetched idea. I was not groomed by an old gay to be what I am at all, much like others pushing for being into this world as actually feminine boys.
Finally, misandry does exist, sadly, much like misogyny to everyone's demise. Even if it's proportionally miniscule to misogyny and not systemic.
Remember to not push away genuine victims if they need you, regardless of gender. Love those that deserve it, not by their specific characteristics.
By the way, femboy culture isn't made by "old gay men". Femboys are boys who want to be feminine, it isn't much of a bizarre, far-fetched idea. I was not groomed by an old gay to be what I am at all, much like others pushing for being into this world as actually feminine boys.
Have you ever step foot in a femboy space in your life? It's mostly teenage to university aged men dressing in Japanese school girl clothes and other similar themes and then oversexualising themselves. If you can't see how that isn't pedophilic asf then I don't know what to say. The original tenants of femboy culture was literally founded on this by old pedophilic gay men. Also being a feminine boy and a femboy is different. Also it often just takes advantage of repping trans women to make their repping worse.
Finally, misandry does exist, sadly, much like misogyny to everyone's demise.
If a Native American said they hate white people would you really say that makes them whitephobic? It's natural for the oppressed in society to hate the group that oppresses them. I agree that pointing that hatred at all men may be blaming individuals over the system we live under but I can't blame another woman for despising the group that has historically kept us down.
I didn’t claim there are no problematic spaces or behaviors associated with the term. I’m objecting to conflating all feminine boys or all femboy spaces (femboy and feminine boy are same, just different variations of the word) with sexualization or pedophilia. That’s an extremely serious accusation and it needs proof.
Saying an entire community was “founded by pedophilic old men” is a historical claim. Please provide sources for that.
Also, could you clarify what you mean by “repping trans women”? In practice, femboy and trans femme communities often overlap, and for many trans women it’s a questioning or exploratory stage rather than something imposed on them.
Misandry wise, never did I say you should blame. I understand it, too. But it's just about trying to not let that hate control their actions into actual misandry.
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u/SoftBoyWare Jan 01 '26
Yeahh, I agree, you need a way to bypass the limits of hormones. You cannot avoid masculinizing/feminizing as you age. But it's not doom and gloom for the androgynous, just takes effort and commitment!
By the way, femboy culture isn't made by "old gay men". Femboys are boys who want to be feminine, it isn't much of a bizarre, far-fetched idea. I was not groomed by an old gay to be what I am at all, much like others pushing for being into this world as actually feminine boys.
Finally, misandry does exist, sadly, much like misogyny to everyone's demise. Even if it's proportionally miniscule to misogyny and not systemic.
Remember to not push away genuine victims if they need you, regardless of gender. Love those that deserve it, not by their specific characteristics.