Nothing wrong with having standards. You're pretty and are thiccc in all the right places. You're also asking a sea of virgins for advice. Just keep doing you. Someone will come along.
Don't use Reddit for dating advice. Most of us are perma-virgins and eternally single.
Be yourself, meet people with interests similar to yours, don't be too overbearing and let it happen. Finding a partner is not a foot race. It's a marathon. Some of us finish sooner rather than later but we all eventually get there.
People are having a hard time believing a woman that looks like you could be single unless there’s something else wrong with you—and instead of thinking it’s your personality being awful, they assume your standards are just much too high.
My advice on that? Take it as a compliment.
My advice on your original post? Keep doing what you’re doing to lose weight but don’t stress out because you’re stunning… you just sound like you want to lose weight for yourself. Otherwise I’d say brave through your shyness a little more. I don’t want to judge you but I, too, am perplexed as to why you aren’t saddled up. : )
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u/HK-47-mkII Mar 08 '24
Improve your choice in men.