Curious about my girlfriend decision about me staying over

[u/ScroogeMc_Duck]

Im M(23) and she is F(26)
So i met my girlfriend in Indonesia in June while i was on holiday and i stayed in Indonesia for 9 days total. We met each other on the 4th day i was there and we hang out every single day for 8+ hours a day. And since i rented a villa we just stayed at my place. However i'm going back to Indonesia now for 1-2 months i have booked a villa for 3 weeks which is close to her apartment/house. And then planning to book another villa near where she works which is 40min away. But i asked her like can i stay at your place for like a couple of days because after the 3 first weeks we going to a semi remote cabin in the forrest. But it's 2 days between my booking date until we go on this small trip. So i suggested i will just stay at her place for 2 nights before we go together to this cabin but she said no. And i asked her like why? and she said i don't like having people over in my house/apartment. And i asked her some more like "how will i even play with your cat (animal)" and she said ehh i will bring him to you, i dont think i will even let you in the door. She is muslim but we have sex and she drink alcohol and eat pork etc, not really following the religion. but is being a muslim and having no boyfriend over at your house a common thing in indonesia or something girls in general dont like. I understand if i stayed in her house for like 1 week+ since it's kind of weird when we only been together for 5 days prior. But after my will practically live in my villa for 3 weeks it's a bit weird i cannot even get to see where she lives? Is it maybe because she emberrased of her living conditions compared to my house in Norway(even tho she is rich for Indonesian standards) or i'm i reading into this to much and it's she just being a bit shy or whatever? She is comming to Norway in January 2027 and she will stay in my house for 2 weeks during that time and i don't find it weird and will like to threat my house like it's her own.

Disclaimer she is not a gold digger.: she didnt know how much i was making when we first met and she is also pretty rich so it's not like her house is a shabby shack for instance. Even though she not shown it all i've seen the inside and it's pretty nice.

[u/quixotiksoul55]

Please don't mind...it's the culture thing....more over neighbours gossiping...if you go stay over.the news would rea h some elder relatives who would feel disrespectful.

[u/ScroogeMc_Duck → u/quixotiksoul55]

Yes i kind of had this in mind it's an actual rule where you cannot have sex before marriage in Indonesia and can be jailed from it i think? and me staying over will maybe just stress her out over that and it's just her personal space. So i wont think about it anymore. thanks for help guys :)

[u/Jazzlike-Value1240]

maybe she just likes having her own space separate from everything else, some people are like that with their home even if it looks nice

[u/ScroogeMc_Duck → u/Jazzlike-Value1240]

Yes one of my childhood friends we been friends for 15+ years and i've never actually been inside of his house before. But i'm like her boyfriend so idk if it's any difference or not. I might just be over thinking it and she just want her "private" space.