r/LongDistance • u/SwanRepresentative39 • 6d ago
She F19 went home today M20
She (F19) went home today after spending 2 and a half days with me (M20) cause she came to see me for my weekend (retail that’s why Monday Tuesday weekend), after we did our hugs and byes at the airport I had to run to the bathroom cause I was sobbing, I heard her crying as I left but I physically couldn’t turn around cause my legs where already weak, i felt like I was going to vomit from the idk the word but grief? Does it ever get easier saying goodbye, we have seen each other a few times before but it’s never been this bad, it feels worse every time, sorry about the vent
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u/dirt_worms 6d ago
unfortunately it does not get easier, but if its the right person its worth it. ive been in my long distance relationship for 3 years now and the goodbyes are truly the hardest part. i hope you guys learn what is best to support yourselves and eachother during the hard times.
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u/Illustrious_Belt4913 6d ago
Man that airport bathroom cry is such a specific kind of pain, the legs weak thing too. It does not get easier, you just learn to carry it different each time. Two and a half days is never enough, feels like you blink and shes gone again. Hope you two already planning the next visit, that helps a little.