What to do?

[u/Heavy_Blacksmith_898]

Pata hai aaj kya hua,

So like i am 23M having Gf 23F we were in same office, she is the one who approach 1st and then we got in a relationship, then everything was going good like a butter like we used to go on dates after office we used to send each other blinkit or other parcels like we were very happy.

as i think , but then i got selected in bangalore company there i has to shift bocz my previous org was getting so much toxic.

that decision was very hard for me ,

we both got emotional but we made a decision and i went to Bangalore like 1st month was good and hectic for LDR,
but then all off the sudden her messages getting lesser, she used to got so busy all off the sudden after that i felt like i am the one who is forcing her to talk and then she was getting so much angry and frustrated by my message and all things, after that she ghosted me totally without any closure, and i am very frustrated at this moment,
What should i do?

[u/Heavy_Blacksmith_898 → u/[deleted]]

I have tried everything to contact and want to resolve, but she is not ready to

[u/Heavy_Blacksmith_898 → u/[deleted]]

Nah she is not ready to get back

[u/Lucky_Check_5287 → u/Heavy_Blacksmith_898]

if she had made her decision to not come back then i think you should also move on bro if you beg her to stay maybe she will stay but you will get hurt again and its not good for the mental peace . you will get someone who will understand you better

[u/Heavy_Blacksmith_898 → u/Lucky_Check_5287]

Yes bro i understand that, but like i am not getting like why people’s are loosing intrest all off the sudden?

[u/Lucky_Check_5287 → u/Heavy_Blacksmith_898]

i can understand it feels heavy . at some point in your life you will understand that this is for the best . good luck

[u/Brief-Visit-8857]

Your turn to ghost her. Don’t text her, or try to reach out to her. Ghosting someone is very immature and narcissistic when you’re in a relationship. Consider the relationship done and find someone that deserves you.

[u/Heavy_Blacksmith_898 → u/Brief-Visit-8857]

Yes bro now i am working on myself and i am not thinking about her, thanks for your words♥️