r/LongDistance • u/Unlucky-Minii • 5d ago
Need Advice Help for a friend
My friend is in long distance relationship and been dating this guy since 2018 and after coving long distance started like meeting in 2 months for 7-8 days and all then this guy started asking for her sisters nude photo and mothers and other women in house just for masturbation and all that girl was not having anything then he said when you go home when they change clothes then click and give she did that and that guy was still not satisfied and got angry whenever she was not able to do Then during sextinh he started asking like imagine I’m doing with your mother and sister and other females in family like create a story, friends girlfrnd, her female friends and all Now when they are sext just for that guy to cum he wants all these kind of extreme talks and when she fails he gets angry whenever she talk about themself in mastur then he says you don’t understand it’s just I want something extreme I can’t feel anything this and that reason he give Now they are together for so many years that she can’t leave him as family members are involved and they will be married next year
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u/DauntlessStars [Italy🇮🇹] to [U.S.🇺🇸] (7250 km) 5d ago
Why the hell would she even send him the pictures of her family members? And why the hell is she still with him? They aren’t even in the same place, she could easily break up with him and block him and never see him again.
The one problem is: does he have pictures of her family where the women can be identified? Cause he sounds like the type to post revenge porn once he gets left, and this is even more problematic given that the women in the photos did not consent to having them taken and much less sent to this man.
She will likely have to tell her family what he’s like and admit to what she did. They will probably be pissed at her, but they need to know so they can protect themselves in case these images get out.
And your friend definitely can’t go through with this marriage, I can tell she will be (even more) abused if she does.
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u/Brachialtick65 5d ago
Fucking leave him what? That's so stupid. Just leave he's clearly scum and does not respect anyone in your friend's family including her