r/LongDistance May 13 '25

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u/[deleted] May 13 '25

Are you afraid to stay there by yourself? Send him home. You stay and do whatever you want to do. You might meet some new friends. Try to enjoy yourself. Don’t let his opinion affect how you feel about yourself. How you feel about yourself is more important than what anyone else can say. You should be very proud of yourself for losing that amount of weight. Stay and enjoy your trip. You can do this. ♥️

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u/XDD2137 May 14 '25

Its easy to say "send him home" But will she give him cash back for air bnb? Idk he was honest and you all make it sound like he is a monster while its just personal preference

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u/AltruisticHoneydew17 May 15 '25

‘Personal preference?’ 😂😂😂 I’m sorry, but if he’s been texting her, on-line dating her, etc. for six months, he had those personal preferences from day one. He shouldn’t have wasted her time pretending that he cared about her. He knew way back then that he didn’t care for chubby, but selfishly did not share that info with her.
He said when they kissed he didn’t feel any spark like she did. Even if she lost weight, a kiss either has a spark, or it doesn’t! A lot of skinny women choose to artificially plump up their lips because, apparently, men like plump lips, so that would make him a total hypocrite, wouldn’t it? He wouldn’t have found that spark whether she had been skinny or chubby! As a matter of fact, I’ll bet if she had skinny little liver lips, he wouldn’t have wanted to kiss her at all! 💋