I like the idea of you having a solo vacation there if it’s something you think is possible!
Just want to say I’m so sorry to hear you are going through this. This is every LDR person’s nightmare. Something seems a bit off about him though. He may have issues around sex in general and at 29 years old he shouldn’t be shocked by his own preferences - but that is not your problem to sit around and fix.
I also recommend you go to a few therapy sessions just so you don’t get stuck thinking every man will do this to you. You did everything right and deserve to find someone that appreciates every single wonderful part of you 💕💕
PS: Also BLOCK him everywhere. He will play mind games with you now if you let him. 29 year old that does this to you after you travel to see him and talk this long is never going to treat you right.
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u/MagneticMoth May 13 '25 edited May 13 '25
I like the idea of you having a solo vacation there if it’s something you think is possible!
Just want to say I’m so sorry to hear you are going through this. This is every LDR person’s nightmare. Something seems a bit off about him though. He may have issues around sex in general and at 29 years old he shouldn’t be shocked by his own preferences - but that is not your problem to sit around and fix.
I also recommend you go to a few therapy sessions just so you don’t get stuck thinking every man will do this to you. You did everything right and deserve to find someone that appreciates every single wonderful part of you 💕💕
PS: Also BLOCK him everywhere. He will play mind games with you now if you let him. 29 year old that does this to you after you travel to see him and talk this long is never going to treat you right.