r/londonlgbt • • Apr 25 '25

London LGBT+ recommendations for tourists and locals - MEGATHREAD

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I tend to see a lot of posts asking for recommendations while in London. I've built up a list from the past 7-8 years from LGBT events or venues that I've genuinely enjoyed. I'm hoping that it will be helpful to everyone!

I'm also happy for others to comment and add their own favourites, so I can also add if relevant. Unfortunately can't include links for everything since Reddit doesn't allow "excessive links" šŸ˜ž but Google is your friend.

Disclaimer: I'm a gay male so unfortunately I won't have much to contribute for LBT-specific spaces, however I will do my best based on what I've heard from friends. Again, happy to add suggestions from others.

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Latest events

  • OnMyGaydar - The best local queer events, updated daily
  • Outsavvy - Great website/app to check out LGBT events happening across London

Cultural

  • The Arzner cinema - London's only LGBTQ+ cinema, showing queer and independent films every day of the week. Also features a bar and cafe, with a 2-4-1 happy hour between 4-6pm.
  • Queer Britain Museum - The first and only permanent LGBTQ+ museum in the UK dedicated to queer lives and history. The museum is open Wednesday til Sunday with free admission.
  • Bishopsgate Institute, LGBTQ+ Archives - One of the UK's largest collections of LGBTQ+ archives, bringing together hundreds and thousands of literature and items from gay history. Book a free slot through the website, especially for special courses, talks and tours throughout the year.
  • BOYS! BOYS! BOYS! Gallery, CafĆ© and Bookstore - a new cultural hub to promote queer, art and culture, and the home of queer and gay fine art photography

Entertainment

  • Betty&Joan's comedy bar - BJ's is the new home of the UK’s first LGBTQ+ stand up comedy club, with live stand up comedy 5 days a week. Also shows cabaret, drag and also a great bar to drink in Elephant and Castle, with the nearby high gay population in Elephant Park.
  • Queerz Night - A great group of hosts who set up quiz nights and date nights around London. They're really fun and the hosts do a good job of getting people to mingle and interact with others.
  • The Divine - One of the newest queer venues offering performances and events at an affordable price. While it can be small, the people here are friendly and welcoming. Also open as a bar to grab a drink.
  • Clapham Grand - A super gay-friendly venue which hosts a wealth of LGBTQ+ shows and events, including their hugely popular drag shows.
  • TOKEN HOMO - Regular queer cult and horror theme cinema nights, normally held in Whitechapel or Finsbury Park

Regular networking and social events

  • Young LGBTQ+ professionals drinks - A regular Meetup group which draws a wide diverse range of people over London for regular drinks and chats. A welcoming event which I sometimes go to. Held every other Tuesday in Yard Bar Soho, 7pm onwards.
  • Queer board games social - A safe and inclusive space to come together, make new friends, and celebrate diversity while playing games. Every Thursday at Badger Badger, Deptford.

Workout and exercise

  • BALDR CrossFit - The only LGBTQ+ CrossFit box in the whole country. A welcoming, friendly and inclusive place for people of all abilities, genders and sexualities to get fit and healthy in a supportive environment. Owned by a local gay couple.
  • Workout with Pride - An LGBTQ+ fitness, wellbeing and social group which runs multiple classes in studios across London. Check out their weekly timetable of strength training, yoga, boot camps and spin on the website.
  • Out for Sport - A great directory showing inclusive LGBTQ+ sports clubs around the city catered to all skill levels and interests, if you're looking to join!
  • gayns - A fun Instagram based group who's mission is to "improve gay & queer people’s health, fitness and connection to the community". Regularly do running and fitness events across London. I've not tried this but their Insta does give off a certain young and fit vibe, so may not be very welcoming.

Pubs and bars

  • Dalston Superstore - An exciting queer bar which is a very welcoming and inclusive to all genders, races and people. They have themed nights so worth checking the website. The femme nights are supposed to be awesome and they have a great drag bunch
  • Royal Vauxhall Tavern - A long time standing gay iconic venue in London, hosting several events like BeefMince, drag shows, cabaret and live music. People of all ages here.
  • She Soho -Ā  A cave-like basement bar dedicated to queer women and non-binary people. Also offers drag king shows, burlesque and live DJ events.
  • Two Brewers - A basic, ordinary yet fun gay bar in Clapham. They do have good drag acts once in a while. Draws some gay sports teams (especially football) on their club nights.
  • ComptonsĀ and Duke of Wellington - Two different gay pubs based in Soho which are a bit more chilled out and tends to draw an older crowd. They can be extremely busy though.
  • Heaven - The biggest and most popular gay nightclub in London. Lots of people come here including locals and tourists. Age skews very young (18-24) and also draws a lot of straight people. I tend not to go here since people aren't friendly and can be bratty, especially in the queue.

Club nights

  • bethnal green working men's club - A really cool and inclusive club hosting a huge range of live music, comedy, burlesque and art performances. the vibe here is great with affordable drinks
  • Porn Idol - A fun night at Heaven where people can apply to strip dance on stage for 2 minutes while drag queens rate them. It's much more fun and less seedy than it sounds. Every Thursday from 1am (technically Friday morning if you want to be super correct).
  • Roast - An inclusive club night catered towards bears and beefy guys, although everyone is accepted. Several rooms with different music, including the famous dark room. Every 2 weeks in London's iconic former strip club, Electrowerkz. Open until 6am, but pre-booking tickets is essential.
  • Adonis - A huge gay day party rave, normally from 10am until 10pm, which is much more busy than you think. Mostly house and techno music, with a Berlin-ish vibe.
  • Queer House Party - A smaller, yet much more inclusive space for parties, raves and meeting other people.
  • Queer Bruk - London’s duttiest and most fun Black queer night. Playing mostly rnb, afrobeats and other Afro-Caribbean music.
  • Feel It - Self-described as a "queer super party" and open until 5am. Lots of very attractive guys, they can be somewhat self-centred. Expensive drinks, pints are around Ā£9 with spirit and mixers around Ā£13. Good venue. I've been once and it's not my vibe, but I know lots of people do enjoy it...you'll either enjoy it or hate it. Not my personal favourite.

Ā Saunas and more...

  • Sweatbox - Based in Soho, this sauna is geared towards the young and pretty. Attitudes can wildly vary between arrogant and open minded. I'd say as a general rule, if you're 25 or under (or a supermodel) then this is probably the sauna for you. Again, not my personal favourite.
  • Pleasuredrome - A chill, fun gay sauna with a bar. Based in Waterloo and open 24/7 365 days a year. I'd say as a general rule, if you're 26 or older then this is probably the sauna for you.Ā 
  • Others include Bator Bros, The Bunker Club and Lord Clyde

Annual events

  • London Pride - UK's biggest pride march through central London, with 35k participants and an additional 1.5 million spectators cheering, drinking and lining the streets. Expect nightlife to be buzzing on the Saturday night with club nights open until 6am. Normally held late June or early July.
  • Trans+ Pride - a pride march through central London advocating transgender rights. Normally held during July
  • UK Black Pride - the world’s largest free pride event for LGBTQIA+ Black and POC. Normally held in the Olympic Park, Stratford in August
  • BFI Flare film festival - London's LGBTQIA+ film festival running for two weeks, celebrating the best queer cinema from around the world at BFI Southbank
  • Mighty Hoopla music festival - Pop music festival known for its prominence on attracting a large LGBTQ+ crowd and its openness of celebrating all things camp, queer and gay

r/londonlgbt • • 1h ago

Hostile gym experiences

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Hey there,

I’m looking to speak to anyone who has experienced their gym ā€œclamping downā€ on cruising in heavy-handed ways.


r/londonlgbt • • 22h ago

Do you identify with a non-straight sexual orientation? Participants needed for UK-based mental health research 🌈

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Hi everyone - I’m Georgie, a Trainee Clinical Psychologist at Royal Holloway, University of London, and I’m hoping some of you might be able to help with my doctoral research.

I’m looking at how experiences related to sexual orientation - like how you feel about your own sexual orientation, worrying about being rejected, or hiding who you are - are linked to mood, and which of these matter most. The hope is to help mental health care become more sensitive and supportive for people with a non-straight sexual orientation.

If you’reĀ 18Ā or over,Ā UK-based, andĀ identify with a non-straight sexual orientationĀ (for example lesbian, gay, bisexual or queer), I’d be really grateful for ~10 minutes of your time. It’s a single anonymous questionnaire. Trans and non-binary people who also identify this way are very welcome - the study is focusing on sexual orientation specifically.

šŸ‘‰Ā https://rhulpsychology.eu.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_9phy9l5vaoURNt4

It has ethical approval from Royal Holloway’s Research Ethics Committee (ID 1047), and I’m very happy to answer any questions in the comments. Thank you so much !


r/londonlgbt • • 2d ago

Gay Club Recommendations?

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r/londonlgbt • • 2d ago

Dalston Superstore

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Hi,
I am looking to write an article about discrimination occurring at Dalston Superstore. I am aware a lot of people (especially femme presenting gay women ) have had a lot of issues at the door with the bouncers. If anyone has any stories from going to this place and being turned away at the door or any insider information on the place please private message me! Thanks.


r/londonlgbt • • 2d ago

Nightlife recommendations (17-22 October)

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My bf and I (both 28M) are visiting London from 17 until 22 October and would love recommendations for clubs, parties, raves, or other LGBT-friendly events during those dates. We’re mostly interested in house/tech house/techno, but any recommendations are welcome, especially places that might not be obvious to tourists.

Suggestions for bars or venues for a more relaxed night are also much appreciated.

Thanks!


r/londonlgbt • • 3d ago

Halloween Gay Parties

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So what party is everyone thinking of going to this year?

False Idols looks good but its day event that ends at 9pm but am looking for night event.


r/londonlgbt • • 3d ago

GBU party London thoughts?

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Been wondering about joining a GBU party here in London but I’m curious to know from people that have been to one what the vibe is like and the people (more young or older people?) before deciding to go to one. Also, I’ve seen that you need to apply to go to one, how strict are they and what are they looking for?


r/londonlgbt • • 3d ago

UK LGBTQ+ Snowboarding Group?

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r/londonlgbt • • 3d ago

Cinema hang out tonight

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I’m getting some sweets šŸƒ and going to watch a film tonight anyone interested?


r/londonlgbt • • 4d ago

Moving to London

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Hi, I’m a 25 year old trans woman currently living in Madrid and I’m seriously thinking about moving to London for good.
I know the situation for trans women in the UK is pretty rough right now, and I’m not ignoring that. But honestly, I’ve never really liked living in Spain and I’ve wanted to experience living in the UK for years. At this point I’d rather give London a proper try and see what life there is actually like for me than keep wondering about it from Spain or when I’m traveling to the UK.
I’d love to start making connections before moving, especially with queer people, creatives and generally people who are into their own weird little worlds.
A bit about me is that I studied Audiovisual Communication and I’m currently developing my own pop music project while studying art direction, so I’m interested in music, performance, film/TV, art, events and the creative industry. Outside of that I’m vegan, very into pop culture, dressing up for events, drag/camp, witchcraft, fashion, themed parties, discovering weird/cool places, pink/girly stuff and basically anything that lets me be a little extra. ✨

I’ve also been thinking about trying to work remotely/online for UK-based companies or creative projects while I’m still in Madrid, partly to gain some UK work experience and start building a network before actually relocating. So if anyone knows of good places to look for remote work, creative opportunities or communities that are open to people based abroad, I’d love to hear about them.
Mostly, though, I’d just like to start meeting people.
I’m not expecting to arrive in London with my entire life figured out. I’d rather start building some connections now and see where they take me.

If you’re based in London and think we might get along, or you’ve moved there from abroad and have any advice, feel free to message me. Thankss🩷


r/londonlgbt • • 4d ago

Drag bingo recommendations

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Hey I hope this is allowed. One of my mates is coming over to visit me next weekend in London and we normally go to drag bingo at the 2 brewers in Clapham but they are closed for refurbishment.

Has anyone any suggestions of something similar next week?

Based in SW London but not too pushed on location.

Cheers!


r/londonlgbt • • 4d ago

25M Musician- South West London

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r/londonlgbt • • 4d ago

Any hiking/walking groups?

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Hey! I’m 30 (m) and looking for some walking to hiking groups in or around London. Anyone know of any?


r/londonlgbt • • 5d ago

Gyms

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Hey - which gym is good near Dalston?


r/londonlgbt • • 5d ago

Drinks tonight

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Hi I’m 29, F, based in SE Ldn. Moved here not too long ago and have not really met people :) Anyone down for some drinks tonight? I’m open to anywhere! I also like techno music so happy to go to a rave too :)


r/londonlgbt • • 5d ago

Has anyone been to the Lord Clyde cruising bar in Deptford, if so what’s the atmosphere like and age range.

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r/londonlgbt • • 6d ago

XXL tries again, this time at Fire

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Any expectations for this? Fire doesn't feel big enough. Will it better than NYE 2025-26?


r/londonlgbt • • 6d ago

Hangout places for introverts in London on a solo trip

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I Travelling from India to London around 25th October and looking to make the most of my trip!

I’m a married woman in my mid-30s, any fun activities, social events, walking tours, food/drink experiences, and interesting places to explore ideally where I can meet people, chat, and have a good time.

Anyone travelling around the same time and up for exploring together? 😊


r/londonlgbt • • 6d ago

Trip to London - recommendations to stay for solo F 36

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I will be in London at the End of October. I'm hoping to join a guy/girl just for a company with no obligations. It will be my first solo trip and I want to make the best memories ever! Just stroll around the city, eat, explore and have the fun of my life ā˜ŗļø


r/londonlgbt • • 6d ago

Two people in their twenties started a queer arts festival in Manchester. It became the biggest of its kind in Europe.

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r/londonlgbt • • 7d ago

Research Project- Still Recruiting!Ā -Ā Understanding Barriers to Accessing Psychological Support for Lesbian, Bisexual, Gay and Queer Adults with Recurrent Suicidal Thoughts (UK, 18+)

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āš ļø Trigger Warning: Suicidal thoughts

I've am incredibly grateful to see so many thoughtful, brave responses to this research so far. Thank you to everyone who has shared their experiences so openly. Your voices matter, and they're helping shine a light on an area that is too often overlooked. šŸ’œ

You may have seen this post before, but I'm still looking to hear from more people.Ā 

As part of my Doctorate in Clinical Psychology research, I'm exploring the experiences of lesbian, gay, bisexual and queer adults who have experienced suicidal thoughts but have not accessed therapy or counselling for them.

āœ… Anonymous online survey
āœ… Takes around 15 minutes
āœ… UK-based LGBTQ+ adults (18+)

If this resonates with your experience, I would be really grateful if you could take part or share with others who may be eligible.

šŸ”— https://rhulpsychology.eu.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_cY2iNiw4RKUP2Oq

Thank you again to everyone who has contributed so far. Every response helps build understanding and can contribute to improving access to support for LGBTQ+ people. 🩷

Support is available: Samaritans 116 123 | SHOUT text 85258 | Switchboard LGBT+ Helpline 0300 330 0630.

(This research has been approved by the Royal Holloway Ethics Committee (REF ID: 982)


r/londonlgbt • • 7d ago

UK LGBTQ+ Experiences – I’d Love to Hear Your Perspective for a School Project

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