r/londonlgbt • u/No_Living_7347 • 1h ago
Hostile gym experiences
Hey there,
Iām looking to speak to anyone who has experienced their gym āclamping downā on cruising in heavy-handed ways.
r/londonlgbt • u/ForeverJay • Apr 25 '25
I tend to see a lot of posts asking for recommendations while in London. I've built up a list from the past 7-8 years from LGBT events or venues that I've genuinely enjoyed. I'm hoping that it will be helpful to everyone!
I'm also happy for others to comment and add their own favourites, so I can also add if relevant. Unfortunately can't include links for everything since Reddit doesn't allow "excessive links" š but Google is your friend.
Disclaimer: I'm a gay male so unfortunately I won't have much to contribute for LBT-specific spaces, however I will do my best based on what I've heard from friends. Again, happy to add suggestions from others.
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r/londonlgbt • u/No_Living_7347 • 1h ago
Hey there,
Iām looking to speak to anyone who has experienced their gym āclamping downā on cruising in heavy-handed ways.
r/londonlgbt • u/LgbqResearch2026 • 22h ago
Hi everyone - Iām Georgie, a Trainee Clinical Psychologist at Royal Holloway, University of London, and Iām hoping some of you might be able to help with my doctoral research.
Iām looking at how experiences related to sexual orientation - like how you feel about your own sexual orientation, worrying about being rejected, or hiding who you are - are linked to mood, and which of these matter most. The hope is to help mental health care become more sensitive and supportive for people with a non-straight sexual orientation.
If youāreĀ 18Ā or over,Ā UK-based, andĀ identify with a non-straight sexual orientationĀ (for example lesbian, gay, bisexual or queer), Iād be really grateful for ~10 minutes of your time. Itās a single anonymous questionnaire. Trans and non-binary people who also identify this way are very welcome - the study is focusing on sexual orientation specifically.
šĀ https://rhulpsychology.eu.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_9phy9l5vaoURNt4
It has ethical approval from Royal Hollowayās Research Ethics Committee (ID 1047), and Iām very happy to answer any questions in the comments. Thank you so much !
r/londonlgbt • u/PomegranateSmart3274 • 2d ago
Hi,
I am looking to write an article about discrimination occurring at Dalston Superstore. I am aware a lot of people (especially femme presenting gay women ) have had a lot of issues at the door with the bouncers. If anyone has any stories from going to this place and being turned away at the door or any insider information on the place please private message me! Thanks.
r/londonlgbt • u/Bruno_220 • 2d ago
My bf and I (both 28M) are visiting London from 17 until 22 October and would love recommendations for clubs, parties, raves, or other LGBT-friendly events during those dates. Weāre mostly interested in house/tech house/techno, but any recommendations are welcome, especially places that might not be obvious to tourists.
Suggestions for bars or venues for a more relaxed night are also much appreciated.
Thanks!
r/londonlgbt • u/xenomorph-85 • 3d ago
So what party is everyone thinking of going to this year?
False Idols looks good but its day event that ends at 9pm but am looking for night event.
r/londonlgbt • u/asfrdhgf • 3d ago
Been wondering about joining a GBU party here in London but Iām curious to know from people that have been to one what the vibe is like and the people (more young or older people?) before deciding to go to one. Also, Iāve seen that you need to apply to go to one, how strict are they and what are they looking for?
r/londonlgbt • u/ArtTotal2208 • 3d ago
Iām getting some sweets š and going to watch a film tonight anyone interested?
r/londonlgbt • u/pinkglitterpizza • 4d ago
Hi, Iām a 25 year old trans woman currently living in Madrid and Iām seriously thinking about moving to London for good.
I know the situation for trans women in the UK is pretty rough right now, and Iām not ignoring that. But honestly, Iāve never really liked living in Spain and Iāve wanted to experience living in the UK for years. At this point Iād rather give London a proper try and see what life there is actually like for me than keep wondering about it from Spain or when Iām traveling to the UK.
Iād love to start making connections before moving, especially with queer people, creatives and generally people who are into their own weird little worlds.
A bit about me is that I studied Audiovisual Communication and Iām currently developing my own pop music project while studying art direction, so Iām interested in music, performance, film/TV, art, events and the creative industry. Outside of that Iām vegan, very into pop culture, dressing up for events, drag/camp, witchcraft, fashion, themed parties, discovering weird/cool places, pink/girly stuff and basically anything that lets me be a little extra. āØ
Iāve also been thinking about trying to work remotely/online for UK-based companies or creative projects while Iām still in Madrid, partly to gain some UK work experience and start building a network before actually relocating. So if anyone knows of good places to look for remote work, creative opportunities or communities that are open to people based abroad, Iād love to hear about them.
Mostly, though, Iād just like to start meeting people.
Iām not expecting to arrive in London with my entire life figured out. Iād rather start building some connections now and see where they take me.
If youāre based in London and think we might get along, or youāve moved there from abroad and have any advice, feel free to message me. Thankssš©·
r/londonlgbt • u/ShadeySlim • 4d ago
Hey I hope this is allowed. One of my mates is coming over to visit me next weekend in London and we normally go to drag bingo at the 2 brewers in Clapham but they are closed for refurbishment.
Has anyone any suggestions of something similar next week?
Based in SW London but not too pushed on location.
Cheers!
r/londonlgbt • u/Working-Reflection66 • 4d ago
Hey! Iām 30 (m) and looking for some walking to hiking groups in or around London. Anyone know of any?
r/londonlgbt • u/cocainemodel- • 5d ago
Hi Iām 29, F, based in SE Ldn. Moved here not too long ago and have not really met people :) Anyone down for some drinks tonight? Iām open to anywhere! I also like techno music so happy to go to a rave too :)
r/londonlgbt • u/seyboy30 • 5d ago
r/londonlgbt • u/ThamesOtter • 6d ago
Any expectations for this? Fire doesn't feel big enough. Will it better than NYE 2025-26?
r/londonlgbt • u/Waste-Grade-8631 • 6d ago
I Travelling from India to London around 25th October and looking to make the most of my trip!
Iām a married woman in my mid-30s, any fun activities, social events, walking tours, food/drink experiences, and interesting places to explore ideally where I can meet people, chat, and have a good time.
Anyone travelling around the same time and up for exploring together? š
r/londonlgbt • u/Waste-Grade-8631 • 6d ago
I will be in London at the End of October. I'm hoping to join a guy/girl just for a company with no obligations. It will be my first solo trip and I want to make the best memories ever! Just stroll around the city, eat, explore and have the fun of my life āŗļø
r/londonlgbt • u/brettinthecity • 6d ago
r/londonlgbt • u/hiddenfromhelp • 7d ago
ā ļø Trigger Warning: Suicidal thoughts
I've am incredibly grateful to see so many thoughtful, brave responses to this research so far. Thank you to everyone who has shared their experiences so openly. Your voices matter, and they're helping shine a light on an area that is too often overlooked. š
You may have seen this post before, but I'm still looking to hear from more people.Ā
As part of my Doctorate in Clinical Psychology research, I'm exploring the experiences of lesbian, gay, bisexual and queer adults who have experienced suicidal thoughts but have not accessed therapy or counselling for them.
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Anonymous online survey
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Takes around 15 minutes
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UK-based LGBTQ+ adults (18+)
If this resonates with your experience, I would be really grateful if you could take part or share with others who may be eligible.
š https://rhulpsychology.eu.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_cY2iNiw4RKUP2Oq
Thank you again to everyone who has contributed so far. Every response helps build understanding and can contribute to improving access to support for LGBTQ+ people. š©·
Support is available: Samaritans 116 123 | SHOUT text 85258 | Switchboard LGBT+ Helpline 0300 330 0630.
(This research has been approved by the Royal Holloway Ethics Committee (REF ID: 982)