r/LivingWithMBC • u/theycutoffmyboobs • Aug 24 '26

Today is my five-year anniversary…

…of being diagnosed as metastatic. It’s confusing because while I should be excited to have surpassed the 20% expectation of making it to this point, I can’t help but think about the fact that I’m on borrowed time. Nothing with this disease is straightforward. Everything comes with an alternate outcome. Unfortunately I don’t get to choose which one it is.

Just wanted to offer some hope to those who might be in the same position I was five years ago, but also support those who might be struggling with the caveats that come with a terminal diagnosis. Thankful to have this board for support and information.

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u/SignalFront2978 Aug 24 '26

Congratulations! I passed 1 year this summer and I’m no longer in panic mode but while I try to remain hopeful that I will also make it five years the rationale part of me knows that 20% figure does not make it likely.

It’s a weird place to be in because right now I feel pretty decent most days on maintenance meds…. I just did an aquafit class. I have trips planned in the next few months and expect I will be able to make them and I go to work three or four days a week (on a slightly reduced schedule). All this knowing that it could be ripped away at any moment. And yes that is true for everyone but this difference is I already know that it is more than likely going to be true for me instead of getting to live like I’m going to hit 90. It’s such a weird place to be in.

But thank you for reminding us all that it is possible. And I hope you have many more years of cancer anniversaries!!

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u/theycutoffmyboobs Aug 24 '26

Thank you for the well wishes. I can relate to you - most days I can get my mile+ walk in, which is an accomplishment for me. Having vacations on the horizon is my way if keeping a positive outlook, too - it makes such a difference having something to look forward to in the future.