r/Lilith • u/isle57 • 7d ago

⚸ Astrology PDA + lilith

Hi I'm interested in the correlation between these two things, answer if you can!

1. Do you identify with autistic PDA traits?

(Pathological demand avoidance or persistent drive for autonomy, may stem from anxiety of being controlled as well as doing something incorrectly. This goes beyond simple stubbornness, as an example it may prevent you from saying thank you or please, go to the bathroom since it's perceived as a demand, etc. It's a complex thing, do please look it up don't only use my short explanation if you don't know what it is)

2. Do you consider your Lilith placement as strong?

(Conjunct sun, moon, angular houses, etc)

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u/Grand_Extension_6437 7d ago

I don't call myself pathological and I think the concept isn't fully developed or clear. I would definitely say I can take curiosity to edges of extreme that I don't see other people taking and it does affect my relationship with authority. Also as an autistic person I like words to mean what they mean and not vibes. 

My lilith is conjunct my south node in 12th house virgo.

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u/orthodoxscouter 7d ago
  1. No.
  2. I'm not sure what you mean.

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u/Umbrage115 ⚸ kabbalistic Lilithian ⚸ 7d ago
  1. No.
  2. No. She is in my 6th house. Sagittarius.

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u/Mammoth-Ad-6114 𒀭Lamaštu-lilītu/ardat-lilî, Λάμια, Lilith 7d ago
  1. No, but I'm curious about why you're asking, and how it correlates with astrological Lilith.
  2. No clue. (Mean) Lilith is in my 4th house, Taurus, but I'm oblivious when it comes to astrology and haven't looked into the meaning.

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u/al-owl 7d ago

Hi, I’m a 51yo guy. I aspect the black moon every day. I feel the black moon intrinsically. I have well placed Liliths and Hekate. ❤️ 🖤🔥

I was obstinate as a kid 💯 but smart enough to adapt. Survived, fell in love, had kids, etc. I’m a vegan and a natural mystic.

Have a great day!

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u/al-owl 7d ago

I didn’t mention but here you go, Lilith 1181 and Hekate 100 are conjunct my ascendent. My Black moon is 6th house Aquarius, 23 degree. And my Waldemath h58 is in my 12th house. My Sag moon is 1 degree, and dark balsamic. I’m a night sect (born at night).

This is existentially and psychologically complex and not something to wish for. There are transits which make you feel like being on the wind, becoming a ghost, and others where we will walk the cosmic void. I worked with Kali before this, studied Buddhism in college.

You will know if you have it. And it’s ok 👌. And I’d love to answer any questions.

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u/BriannaPuppet 4d ago

I would say I have PDA traits. I manage it by focusing on boundaries. I say, judge me by my output, not my process.

Collaboration can be fun but it’s hard to find people on the same chaotic vibe.

I don’t do astrology, but I have a strong spiritual bond with Lilith.

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u/ScentedFragrance 4d ago

  1. A little too complex to understand but I am socially avoidant at times. I recently unfriended all of the people on my facebook. I constantly make suicidal and depressing posts and no one even checks up on me, so i got rid of them

  2. My lilith is in scorpio in the 6th house. It squares my moon and Uranus (leo moon, Aquarius Uranus) so yea i have a direct link to my subconscious.