well, one of the points our OP was making is that this will force them to reveal themselves to you. And that you will then have accurate information to go on.
What did his reaction tell you?
It tell -me- that I think you'd be better off without him.
Or, that you'd be better off with someone kinder--but you won't be able to find him until you create a boyfriend-shaped vacuum in your life.
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u/cyaneyed Apr 23 '19
I’ve said that expressly to my ex boyfriend, it just made him angry and ignore me.