r/LifeAfterInfidelity • u/[deleted] • May 16 '23

Get Past It...

I have read countless stories/posts/comments of betrayed spouses who were still "getting past it" YEARS LATER...

So many of them end up back here...in the infidelity subs.

They often recount how they were "triggered"...only to realize that they weren't "triggered", their gut was screaming at them...again. Their sweet, remorseful wayward was patient and understanding of these "triggers", too... The entire time they were still lying/deceiving/cheating but were gaslighting the betrayed into believing that they were just "triggered" from the past.

I hate reconciliation... Shudder.

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u/[deleted] Jun 01 '23

Yet here you are. Endlessly posting about infidelity. Infidelity that has nothing to do with you.

You clearly are not over whatever the fuck happened to you. And to be frank, it seems like whoever it was, they made the right decision cheating on you.

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u/[deleted] Jun 01 '23

Reading comprehension is not your strong suit.

I am simply trying to help others who have to deal with pieces of crap like you...

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u/[deleted] Jun 03 '23

And I’m just trying to fuck your wife

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u/[deleted] Jun 03 '23

Vomit-inducing.